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Can you get pregnant without the man ejaculating?

By July 21, 2009 - 12:51pm
 
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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?

PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(

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(reply to Anonymous)

You're welcome, that's what we're here for. Never say never...if you want to be less stressed, be educated and prepared, so you can effectively advocate for your health. Thanks for being a part of the EmpowHER community. :)

March 31, 2011 - 7:16am
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Anonymous

okay, about a week ago me and my boyfriend of three years were rubbing like the other girls said. i know he was in a little, but not far at all.. im super nervous because i know how being a pregnant teen can dramatically change your life and really dont want me future to be ruined by being pregnant. i know he never came, but how likely would it be for me to have gptten pregnant from his precum?

March 29, 2011 - 8:48pm
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,
As I replied to another user a few weeks ago:
Anytime you have unprotected sex, you increase your chances of getting pregnant. Dry sex (genital rubbing) is minimally risky, but actually "entering" you is more risky--still not as risky as having sex and him ejaculating inside of you, but it's still risky. The withdrawal method (what you did) is only about 70% effective at preventing pregnancy. Condoms are about 98% effective, and birth control pills are roughly 99% effective at preventing pregnancy, just to give you some frame of reference. You may want to get some condoms, so the next time you are prepared without needing to worry.
For more information, please review this article: Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?, and Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex
Good luck, and let us know if you have more questions after you thoughtfully read the articles.

March 30, 2011 - 7:40am
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Anonymous

My period is irregular and comes different times almost every month. I think my period should come this weekend, my breasts hurt only when I press on it which is normal for me when my period is about to come. I have also been breaking out too and that only
occurs when my period is about to arrive.

March 15, 2011 - 2:56pm
(reply to Anonymous)

That's good, right? So you're period likely is about to start. You may want to read the articles anyway just so you're prepared next time and won't need to worry needlessly.
Good luck! And keep us posted...

March 16, 2011 - 8:43am
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Anonymous

I've been experiencing cramps lately and my breasts are sore. I'm scared that I might be pregnant, but my boyfriend did use a condom, didn't ejaculate. But he did ejaculate a few minutes before by masturbating. He didn't insert his penis inside though, it hurt when he was trying to. I'm scared though, what should I do

March 14, 2011 - 8:49pm
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,
From what you describe, it doesn't sound like it's possible you could be pregnant. Are you expecting your period in the next week or so? Keep track of symptoms just in case you need to see a doctor. If you end up missing your period, you can take a home pregnancy test. But try and relax. Stress can do a number on your health, including offset your period.
Good luck, and let us know how you're doing.
For more information, please review these articles: Help! The Condom Broke During Sex: How to Prevent "Wardrobe Malfunctions", and Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex.

March 15, 2011 - 8:34am

Hi Anonymous,
Anytime you have unprotected sex, you increase your chances of getting pregnant. Dry sex (genital rubbing) is minimally risky, but actually "entering" you is more risky--still not as risky as having sex and him ejaculating inside of you, but it's still risky. The withdrawal method (what you did) is only about 70% effective at preventing pregnancy. Condoms are about 98% effective, and birth control pills are roughly 99% effective at preventing pregnancy, just to give you some frame of reference. You may want to get some condoms, so the next time you are prepared without needing to worry.
For more information, please review this article: Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?, and Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex

March 14, 2011 - 9:28am
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Anonymous

Hi there, um, I am a virgin with a new boyfriend. We were experimenting a little last night and he was rubbing his penis on my clit. He said he had not cum but his "juices" were there. He backed off from me and wiped himself off, I did the same. Later he entered me, but not very far. I dont think he popped my cherry (for lack of better termonology) but I still worry about pregnancy. What is the chance of getting pregnant with something like that?
Thank you for your help,
Anonymous

March 14, 2011 - 8:47am
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Anonymous

My boyfriend and I used a condom, but he didn't ejaculate or anything. I think he was almost inside cause it did hurt, but i told him to stop cause it hurt too much. The condom didn't break either. Could I still be pregnant?

March 9, 2011 - 4:46pm
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