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Can you get pregnant without the man ejaculating?

By July 21, 2009 - 12:51pm
 
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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?

PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(

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(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon,

Please relax you cannot get pregnant that way unless your boyfriend had ejaculate or preejaculate. If it was dry, then there was nothing there and you are not pregnant. Even if there was any sperm, it would have had to go inside of your vagina in order for pregnancy to even be possible.

Best Wishes,
Rosa

July 30, 2011 - 3:14am
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Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend were playing around and he rubbesd his button my butt . Not my vagina but on my butt he didnt come tough , but I dont know if he precame , can I get pregnant ?

July 29, 2011 - 6:27pm
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Anonymous

i need help... we were messing around and i think he had pre-ejaculate on his penis nd i layed on top nd my pants werent up he says he thought it went in which meant that we were close i couldnt feel cuz i was numb kinda but i just dont kno wat to do, i had my period the next day, is it still possible to be pregnant

July 25, 2011 - 9:31am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

If you had your period, you are not pregnant

July 25, 2011 - 11:27am
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Anonymous

my period is a day late and im worried me and my bf didnt have intercourse but he did cum on my stomach n then he just put his penis away without wiping it off i think some might have got on his boxers and after it we were cuddling and he was rubbing against me with clothes on. Could i be pregnant from this?

July 17, 2011 - 7:33am
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon,

Rest assured, you're not pregnant. If you were both in underwear and he rubbed semen all over your panties, then you would have a small chance of pregnancy--very small. So, the possibility of him still having a droplet of sperm on his penis and that getting on the inside of his boxers and then him hugging you (while both clothed) and that getting you pregnant is not possible. If you had intercourse or if he had ejaculated on or near your vagina to the point where it could drip inside then there would be a chance for pregnancy. But, given the circumstances, you are safe.

All the best,

Rosa

July 17, 2011 - 9:36am
Guide

Hi,
If there was even one sperm on your boyfriend's penis and his penis came in contact with your vagina, then there is a possibility, though slight, that you could get pregnant. Being"wet" could be your own vaginal lubrication because you were sexually aroused, or some of his semen got on you.

July 4, 2011 - 4:54pm
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Anonymous

my boyfriend ubbed his penis on my vagina..n i get wet....is there any chance to get preganant? plz tell me...

July 3, 2011 - 4:47am
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Anonymous

Um about five days ago me' and my boyfriend were messing around and I gave him a blowjob. He ejaculated on his stomach and at least two minutes later I was rubbing my labia on his shaft and a little on the tip, I don't remember for sure if his penis touched my clitoris, but I know it didn't touch my vagina, and if it did it would have touched the shaft. Ever since I have been stressing out and worrying all day. I am afraid I could get pregnant from this. I'm only 15, and I should be getting my period around the 6th-8th of July. I'm supposed to be going to get birth control on the 11th. Also, today I noticed some white clumpy discharge, but only a little. Could this be a sign of pregnancy already?! Could all this stress make my period come late? Please reply quickly, thank you.

July 1, 2011 - 10:51pm
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Hi Anonymous,
This is a difficult question. It is probably unlikely that you could be pregnant because your boyfriend did not ejaculate and penetrate. However, if only one sperm leaked out on the tip of his penis, that sperm could have entered your vagina when he touched you. If your period was due to start before the attempted sex, then it is likely that you already ovulated (an egg released from an ovary). An egg lives for 12 to 24 hours after release. If not fertilized, it disintegrates and is absorbed into the uterine lining.
Emergency contraceptive pills are most effective if taken within 72 hours after sex. The larger dose of the hormone in the pill can have a strong effect on your body beside preventing pregnancy. I apologize that this is not the direct answer which you probably want. Hopefully,I have highlighted some points to help you make a decision. In the future to avoid a similar dilemma, your partner must use a condom from the start and you should consider a form of birth control that is right for you.

June 28, 2011 - 4:24pm
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