MY BOYFRIEND N I HAVE BEEN B/F & G/F, ALMOST GOING TO BE A YR NEXT MONTH, HE DOESN'T TELL ME LIL SWEET THINGS SUCH AS "MY LOVE, SWEETLY OR ETC...
THE LAST TIME WE HAD SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS WAS LAST DEC. 30 N THIS ONE WAS CAUSE I FOLLOW HIM INTO THE SHOWER, BUT SINCE THE MOTHS WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER IT HASN'T COME FROM HIM TO TELL ME LET'S HAVE LOVE, ONLY WHEN HE'S HAS A COUPLE OF DRINKS IS THE ONLY DAYS. THE OTHER DAY I TOLD HIM LETS GO INTO THE ROOM HE TOLD ME "THAT'S ALL WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT" WHEN HE TOLD ME THAT I FELT SO SAD BUT I DIDN'T TOLD HIM NOTHING AND NON OF FRIENDS AND I WANTED TO KNOW WHAT HE MEAN WITH TELLING ME THAT. I ALSO WANTED TO KNOW WHY IT NEVER COMES FROM HIM TO TELL ME THE THINGS I AM ALWAYS THE ONE SAYING THEM N THEN HE SAY "YEA IF YOU WANT TO" EVERY TIME I SAY SOMETHING THAT'S HE ANSWERS OR IF NOT HE'S SAY "YEA ME TOO" THAT'S HE'S OTHER ANSWER . WHO COULD HELP ME AND TELL ME WHAT HE MEANS OR WHAT HE'S FEELING FOR ME.
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Dear Yuyi,
I can't tell you what he is feeling for you-- that is for him to tell you. What he meant when he said "that's all you think about" is that you are constantly wanting sex-- at least in his eyes.
Is he older than you? Stressed? Over-worked? There are many different reasons why men will go cold or seem disinterested. Many men require visual stimulation in order to want to have sex with you and some men just lack the romantic gene. However, if he was once romantic and lovey-dovey with you and all of a sudden it stopped there could be two reasons for that: either he is no longer in love with you or you've hit a rocky road in your relationship which requires some sprucing up to remind him why he chose you over all the women out there.
I hope you get some more feedback and consider talking openly with him about it. Good Luck
January 16, 2010 - 6:01pmThis Comment