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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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Hi moevysan,
March 2, 2011 - 9:38amThank you for your comment and for joining EmpowHER. You should not need to take the next day pill. You are not pregnant, and cannot get pregnant, because he was wearing a condom when he tried to penetrate you. You may be right that the reason that it hurt so much is because you are scared. Perhaps if you educate yourself about sexual activity, and know that if you use contraception (some methods are condoms every time, spermicide, withdrawal, and birth control pills), you will have an easier time with it. You may want to pick two methods and use them every time so you will know there is no risk of unwanted pregnancy. Sex should be enjoyable and not hurt.
For more information, please review these articles:
Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?,
Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex,
Help! The Condom Broke During Sex: How to Prevent "Wardrobe Malfunctions", and finally
Am I Ready for Sex? Ten Things That Need to be True.
Hope the information helps. Let us know if you have more questions after reading articles.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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Thank you Christine Jeffries for taking the time in reading my comment. It helped me a lot. Thank you again.
March 3, 2011 - 2:49pmThis Comment
You're very welcome. That's what we're here for. :)
March 4, 2011 - 8:05amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
March 1, 2011 - 10:17amAnytime you have sex and don't use contraception, there is risk of pregnancy. It often can be hard to tell if a penis is "dry" or not, especially when engaging in sexual activity, that's why it's important to use a condom or some other form of birth control every time if you are concerned about pregnancy. Pre-ejaculate doesn't contain sperm, but it can catch sperm left behind from previous ejaculation. Considering pre-ejaculate, the risk is low for causing pregnancy, but there is some risk. The withdrawal method of birth control is only about 70% accurate at preventing pregnancy.
For more information, please review this article: Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?, and Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex
Good luck and let us know if you have other questions after thoughtfully reading the articles.
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thanks alot fr your concern.
March 1, 2011 - 10:22amshe has her periods after 10 days or so... so do u recommend that she should take ipill.. or any other emergency contraceptive..??
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She can wait 10 days and if she doesn't get her period, she can then take a home pregnancy test or request one from her doctor's office. Emergency contraception is only effective if taken within 72 hours of having sexual intercourse. If there is great concern, and it is still within that time, she can take emergency contraception now. Here is an article to know what to expect from taking emergency contraception: Emergency Contraception Update, 2010.
March 1, 2011 - 10:25amThis Comment
hmmm..
March 1, 2011 - 10:35amis there anyhing else we could do to avoid pregnancy some home remedy or anything..?? i knw me being a bit irritating.. but we are sacred thats all.. i would really appreciate if u would answer this..
thanks alot...
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No you're fine. As mentioned, the risk of her getting pregnant from the activity you engaged in is low, but there is risk. Use a condom or some other form of birth control (abstinence, birth control pills, spermicide, etc.) every time you are intimate if you are concerned about pregnancy.
March 1, 2011 - 10:44amHope this helps~
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hi there
March 1, 2011 - 10:06amtoday i was fooling around with my gf... and i inserted the tip just for 10 secnds or so.. and i am pretty sure it was dry no pre cum....
are there any chances of her getting pregnant?? i am bit scared..please reply asap..
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ok so me and my bf were playing around and he started fingering me and i started bleeding we tried it again and i blead again. Whats going on??? and is my hymen intact???
February 21, 2011 - 2:31pmThis Comment