Hi moevysan,
Thank you for your comment and for joining EmpowHER. You should not need to take the next day pill. You are not pregnant, and cannot get pregnant, because he was wearing a condom when he tried to penetrate you. You may be right that the reason that it hurt so much is because you are scared. Perhaps if you educate yourself about sexual activity, and know that if you use contraception (some methods are condoms every time, spermicide, withdrawal, and birth control pills), you will have an easier time with it. You may want to pick two methods and use them every time so you will know there is no risk of unwanted pregnancy. Sex should be enjoyable and not hurt.
For more information, please review these articles: Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?, Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex, Help! The Condom Broke During Sex: How to Prevent "Wardrobe Malfunctions", and finally Am I Ready for Sex? Ten Things That Need to be True.
Hope the information helps. Let us know if you have more questions after reading articles.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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Hi moevysan,
March 2, 2011 - 9:38amThank you for your comment and for joining EmpowHER. You should not need to take the next day pill. You are not pregnant, and cannot get pregnant, because he was wearing a condom when he tried to penetrate you. You may be right that the reason that it hurt so much is because you are scared. Perhaps if you educate yourself about sexual activity, and know that if you use contraception (some methods are condoms every time, spermicide, withdrawal, and birth control pills), you will have an easier time with it. You may want to pick two methods and use them every time so you will know there is no risk of unwanted pregnancy. Sex should be enjoyable and not hurt.
For more information, please review these articles:
Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?,
Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex,
Help! The Condom Broke During Sex: How to Prevent "Wardrobe Malfunctions", and finally
Am I Ready for Sex? Ten Things That Need to be True.
Hope the information helps. Let us know if you have more questions after reading articles.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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