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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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Hi Anonymous,
May 13, 2011 - 8:10amThank you for your question. Anytime you have sex and don't use protection, there is a risk of pregnancy. However, since there wasn't ejaculation, the risk is minimal. You likely are getting your period this week. If for some reason, it is late, you can take a home pregnancy test, or call your doctor for an appointment to get checked out.
For more information, please review these articles: Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?, and Am I Pregnant? Myths and Facts About Sex
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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hi im wondering why does my girlfriends area has a bad stench?
after intercourse why do i find white liquid on my penis but it's from her?
i know this isnt the place to be asking but i can't navigate very well with a hand held psp.
May 5, 2011 - 4:27amThis Comment
Whatever "stench" you are referring to could be a hygiene issue, or it could signal an infection of some kind. If it really is what you and she would call a foul smell, she may need to get in to see a doctor to determine if she has a bacterial infection that needs treatment.
May 5, 2011 - 7:30amIn regard to the "white liquid," it is normal for both men and women to secrete fluid when engaging in sexual intercourse. It also is normal for a woman to have vaginal or cervical discharge throughout her menstrual cycle. The discharge may be milky in consistency, or it may be more like egg whites in consistency. This is just like how her period flow may be different, ranging from thick and dark in color, or light and pink in hue. All are normal.
Let us know if you have more questions.
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i don't recall it having a foul smell when we were virgins but months later it began to smell so strong it would knock me back. what is the cause?
the white fluid after intercourse is normal from her? it is kind of milky and i thought it was bacterial infection?
oh i would like to know somthing about yogurt able to subdue the stentch or some kind of oil (forgot what is called) that i read on some article pertaining tostench problems.
thank you answering my questions from before!
May 6, 2011 - 4:18amThis Comment
If your girlfriend hasn't been in to see a doctor since you two started being sexually active, now is the time for her to get a check-up. It's important for her (you may want to get checked out too) to meet with the doctor about her reproductive health, and get a pap-smear. The doctor also may recommend a human papilloma virus (HPV) vaccine (you should get one too), to safeguard from contracting this sexually transmitted infection. It is possible one or both of you may be a carrier for it. It's the most common STI. Additionally, the doctor can at that time determine if her vaginal secretions and odor are normal. A medical professional needs to treat any infection, and it's not a good idea to try self-help methods related to your genitals, unless suggested by a doctor.
May 6, 2011 - 9:23amHope that all makes sense. Kudos for advocating for your girlfriend's health.
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Hi,
My name is Dev, And my gf is Tina. Her age is 22.
Me and my gf had unprotected sex on march17, as it was unprotected she stook iPill (cipla) within 12 hrs. After 3 days i.e on 21 march she got her periods which last for 5 days( till 25 march). Now her cycle is 28 days but she has not recieved periods till the date. I am worried as if she pregnent or not?
I have read it on some other forums that iPill delays the normal periods and force them to come soner or later. Is the delay in her period is due to that contraceptive pill ? If yes, how long will it take her to get normal periods.
Please tell me, should she go for blod test or is it normal for periods to be delayed by 12 days from her expected date which was 25 april.
She had done two home pregnancy test using preganews kit. Both came negative.
In short, she had not got her regular periods except the 5 day period like bleeding of taking contraceptive pill ( iPill). And Its 1 month +12 days. No periods.
She had grown pimples on her face, back and always complains me for pain in legs and on back.
What should we do now ? Please provide your valuable suggestion.
Thanks
May 7, 2011 - 3:59pmThis Comment
Hi Dev,
May 9, 2011 - 9:58amIf pregnancy tests are negative, it is likely she is not pregnant. Tina can get in to see a doctor to verify if her period is late or if there is another reason why she hasn't gotten it yet. It could just be off schedule because of taking the iPill--it is a known side effect. We cannot tell you for sure or diagnose her. Only a medical professional can do that.
For more information, please review this article: Emergency Contraception Update, 2010.
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would the health clinic do? would they have pap-smear? is HPV lethal?
lol she really doesn't pay much attention so i'm here looking out for her. :]
thank you very much once again!
May 7, 2011 - 2:18amThis Comment
I know from previous comments that if my boyfriend only put the tip in then I can still get pregnant, but what if I got my period, but it ended early and I feel fatter and it has only been less than a month...can i still get pregnant?
- HELP!
May 3, 2011 - 8:20pmThis Comment
CURIOUS GIRL:
OKAY SO I HAVE NOTICED THAT THE GUY ALWAYS SAYS HE DID NOT CUM OR PRE CUM. THE BOY MAYBE HAD A MUSCLE CONTRACTION AND DID NOT ACTUALLY CUM IN ANYWAY BUT TO BE SURE JUST GO GET A PREGNANCY TEST. CALL THIS NUMBER 18003954357 AND YOU WILL HAVE A URINE TEST FOR FREE AND CONFIDENTIAL. NO ONE WILL FIND OUT UNLESS YOU TELL THEM YOURSELF. IF YOU OR ANY OF YOU CALL THIS NUMBER, SOMEONE WILL HELP LOCATE A PLACE NEAR YOUR HOME.
I ALSO, LIKE THE REST OF YOU HAD FOR THE FIRST TIME SEXUAL CONTACT WITH MY BOYFRIEND (ONLY THE TIP WAS IN AND MY HYMEN IS STILL INTACT). WE ARE SEVENTEEN AND HE SAID HE DID NOT CUM OR PRECUM...JUST LIKE ALL OF YOUR BOYFRIENDS HAVE. I AM GUESSING THEY JUST DONT WANT ANY OF YOU TO WORRY. THEY DONT HONESTLY KNOW FOR A FACT IF THEY DID OR DID NOT PRECUM, BUT MY BOYFRIEND SAID THAT HE LOOKED IT UP AND SOMEONE WROTE THAT WHAT HE FELT WAS JUST A MUSCLE CONTRACTION BECAUSE WE WERE NOT MOVING FAST ENOUGH TO PENETRATE THE PENIS. WE MOVED VERY VERY SLOW AND CAREFULLY. I WAS WET SO WE DONT KNOW IF HE MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE PRECAME, BUT SINCE HE LOOKED IT UP, I WAS WONDERING WHAT YOU LADIES OR GUYS HAVE TO SAY...PROFESSIONALS PLEASE ANSWER ONLY.
CAN THE MALE PRECUM IF WE ARE MOVING VERY SLOW...OR DOES HE HAVE TO BE "EXCITED" PERSAY IN ORDER TO PRECUM?
April 6, 2011 - 6:49pmOR WAS IT JUST INFACT A MUSCLE CONTRACTION?
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