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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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Anonymous

hi i am only 17 and my bf and i were messing around he had put his penis on my vagina he did not stick it in me. I am still a virgin. He did not cum at all but i dont no if he had any pre-cum. I need to no if i can get pregnant. We are not ready to be parents. I am very scared. Please answer my question asap.

June 27, 2012 - 12:20pm
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Hello Anonymous,

Try to relax. Stress will only further delay the start of your period.
If you are late by one week or more, take a home pregnancy test.

Maryann

June 26, 2012 - 4:58pm
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Anonymous

hi there! I just had my period last may 24.. and my bf and I had sex on my 5th day, the first time he inserted his penis is he's wearing a condom then he ejaculated outside me. the 2nd time is I gave him a BJ so he removed his condom then he ejaculated outside me near my boobs and rested a bit, then he turned me over and wanted to put his penis like 1/4 of it, but I resisted coz I got scared. its been 4 weeks already and im delayed on my period for 2 days... I had period may 24 then I was suppose to have it this june 24 im mostly 30-32 cycle. im so worried and scared right now. last week i have white discharrge and ive been eating a lot then this week is ive been feeling bloated and i have yellow discharge. then im having mild lower abdominal pains... please help me.. I dont know know what to doo right now.. :'( im so scaredd.... :'(

June 26, 2012 - 6:49am
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hi there! I just had my period last week... and my bf and I had sex on my 5th day, the first time he inserted his penis is he's wearing a condom then he ejaculated outside me. the 2nd time is I gave him a BJ so he removed his condom then he ejaculated outside me near my boobs and rested a bit, then he turned me over and wanted to put his penis like 1/4 of it, but I resisted coz I got scared. its been 4 weeks already and im delayed on my period for 2 days... I had period may 24 then I was suppose to have it this june 24 im mostly 30-32 cycle. im so worried and scared right now. last week i have white discharrge and ive been eating a lot then this week is ive been feeling bloated and i have yellow discharge. then im having mild lower abdominal pains... please help me.. I dont know know what to doo right now.. :'( im so scaredd.... :'(

June 26, 2012 - 6:48am
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Hello Rose,

Please try to relax. It is not likely that you could become this way.
However, you need to be very careful. You are very young to be engaging in sexual activity of any kind.
Think about what you are doing. Please visit the Sexual Health 101 page:
https://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/am-i-pregnant-myths-and-facts...

Maryann

June 20, 2012 - 4:42pm
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Anonymous

Okay. Please respond ASAP. A few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were fooling around. We are both virgins, anyways, he tried to insert his dry, erect penis into my vagina. He didn't succeed, there was NO penetration. I have not experienced any pregnancy symtptons whatsoever, and my period is due tomorrow. I am 14 years old, and I'm paranoid beyond belief. Please help!!! -Rose

June 20, 2012 - 10:18am
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Anonymous

hey i am ging 2 do sex wth my gf.my age 10 n fer19 so whts r precautions shld be tken whilr ding it n mny say ki do it on d seventh day of her period is it safe kya,will she get pregnant...plz suggest me

June 11, 2012 - 11:51pm
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Anonymous

Hi im 25 and i'm not a Virgen, me and my BF we're kinda Having a "Sexy Time"(which means Love Making) and he kinda accidentally comes inside me.. but afterwards, is there any chance that i would get Pregnant ?? I need a Answer right away, 4 we are not yet Ready to be a Responsible Parent..

June 10, 2012 - 1:28pm
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Hi Sammy,

There is always a possibility as pre-ejaculate can cause pregnancy. It is highly unlikely with your explanation but the only thing you can do now is wait and see if she misses her period, wait 10 days than take a pregnancy test. Hope this helps.

Missie

June 9, 2012 - 5:47am
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okay thank and it been about 4 days nd she still hasent got her period when she usally does but this happend last time too but she did get her period

June 9, 2012 - 6:03am
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