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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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hiii i have a first time sex with my b.f but frm my vagina there no bleeding at all why soo ..... where is my virginity seal ... exactly how much far it is in my vagina
April 21, 2012 - 2:03amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
There is a chance that you could have gotten pregnant during this sexual encounter. Why? Because sperm is so tiny that you cannot see it with your eye. There is no guarantee that all sperm was removed when your boyfriend wiped his penis with his shirt. It only takes one sperm to fertilize one egg for conception to happen. If you ovulated (one of your ovaries released a mature egg) within 12 to 24 hours of having sex, this increases your chance of getting pregnant.
Please have your boyfriend wear a condom, each and every time you have sex. He must put the condom at the beginning of sex and keep it on until you are done. He must use a new condom with each sexual act. And you should be using some type of birth control regularly.
Abstinence and birth control are the only ways to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
Maryann
April 16, 2012 - 5:33pmThis Comment
Hi me and my boyfriend had sex and wen he felt like comin he took his penis off and came he cleand with hes shirt and we waited 30 min and he stickd it in again can i get prekagnanat like that ???????
April 16, 2012 - 12:58pmThis Comment
hi, me and my girlfriend had sex today and I ejaculated with the head of my penis in her(thinking it was out, stupid me) she isn't on birth control on I'm scared shitless...what do I do
April 15, 2012 - 4:00pmThis Comment
hi. my question is,my bf n i were fooling around 9 days ago n only the tip went in and i think it had precum on it. i was scared cos i read online that precum cud get u pregnant. my period just started today,does that mean i'm not pregnant?
April 11, 2012 - 1:18pmThis Comment
To the 15 year old girl,
If you are fooling around in the shower or anywhere for that matter, with a boy, you are no longer a virgin. I will repeat what was said in the one of the above posts, any time a penis is near your vagina, that means contact with your outside genitals called the labia or penetration your vagina, there is the chance of getting pregnant.
It only takes one sperm to travel up into your vagina and fertilize an egg, if one has been released by one of your ovaries.
Fifteen years old is a very young age to become sexually active. You need to educate yourself about sexual health, conception and prevention of an unwanted pregnancy and STDs.
You would not think of driving a car without first taking a driver's education course. Likewise, before becoming sexually active, you
should have a sexual education course.
Please look at the EmpowHer Sexual Health 101 page
https://www.empowher.com/sexual-health-101
Maryann
April 9, 2012 - 4:53pmThis Comment
so you can get pregnant from the tip even if your a virgin .. im 15 and me and my b.f were fooling around in the shower together he rubbed his penis near my area but he doesnt remember if he ejaculated or not what are the chances of me being pregnant?
April 7, 2012 - 7:49amThis Comment
At 15 you may want to consider showering alone! And frankly, any boy will remember ejaculating.
ANY time a penis is NEAR your vagina, you could potentially become pregnant- ANY TIME!
Being a "virgin" has nothing to do with whether or not it takes penetration to become pregnant.
I think many of you girls need a sex ed book! These are basic, common sense issues.
April 7, 2012 - 8:13amThis Comment
wow she is 15 and showering with a guy fooling about is one thing but showering
April 7, 2012 - 2:39pmnot sure how she could get pregnant if there was no penetration. doesnt the sperm need to enter the vagina? or can it just leak in alone
wow im not going to even just masturbate on my gf anymore
she likes it on her and seeing it cum from me
or am i safe cumming on her stomach?
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@Maryann
Thank you so much. =)
April 4, 2012 - 6:02pmThis Comment