Sex/frustration

I’ve been on many sex chat sites in an attempt to find out about women and the way they think. I’ve always held women in the highest of esteem, all do to their ability to resist and keep themselves refrained but after learning the truth of women nature I’ve just lost all hope. I thought when you’re with a woman and you treat her with respect and do anything in your power to please her emotionally the physical would be all for the taken, I know how I sound women say they die for romantic involvement but no matter how much romance you throw at a woman if she doesn’t see you fit enough to give it she will not receive it. Makes me understand them more to the point when theirs a guy they are with and he treats her like shit but she never leaves the guy. They have always said that their attraction starts in their minds, you have to sweep them off their feet in order to win their heart it’s all a lie. You can’t win a woman heart when her mind is set on another guy they just can’t get then settles with you due to your persistence and being a nice guy. When their minds are made up of a certain idea of who they want to share their bed with it’s pretty darn hard to win their hearts.

I’ve searched online for comments on women who cheated on their husbands why did they cheat, and the most they said was when a woman feels neglected is the cause of their infidelity but from what I’ve gathered reading between the lines is women to be feel excited and it’s up to the man to excite her however he can so she would reciprocate and he would receive an reward for his efforts given that her mind is not set on something or someone else. Generally women have better things to do than worry about when is the next time she’s gonna get laid, personally I wish I could feel the same but I can’t, I’m starting to look around and see what men do so we can satisfy our needs for sexual stimulation and I’m starting to feel it’s an real handicap. I know if an woman or some guy that spends most his time getting high (that’s how I feel is the only way they’ll be able to do it) can say I’m no slave to my ding-a-ling I can say no to sex. And I’ve asked numerous women in person and online how long can they go without wanting sex and the standard is one year (????) some even said they can go longer. If that doesn’t gave you an inclination of what women care about most nothing will. So I’ve crashed and burned coming to realize that women are one track minded if they desire you they will do it all for you but if you’re the one that’s chasing her then woe be on to you, theirs an old saying “love the one that loves you not the one you love” It goes triple for women. I

I love sex. God knows how much I love being with an woman, he made them look so delicious. I’ve always wanted to be married thought when I got married sex would not be a problem but you would think if an woman married a man she would be comfortable with her husband sexually it just isn’t so like being out with a girl you’re trying to bed it’s an everyday battle to get her in the mood when everything bothers her from a dripping faucet to she feels unattractive, no matter how much times you tell her how sexy she is it doesn’t matter what a husband says she still feels un attractive, thing is if some guy she hasn’t spent years getting to know shows her she’s looking hot now she feels confident and sexy (SMH) what’s wrong with this picture? am I seeing this wrong? Am I miss judging women and their antics? I’ve even read an online story of an woman(taking it with a dash of salt, and not a guy talking shit)when she cheated on her husband it made the sex even sweeter) I suppose in that sense it would go both ways for a man and a woman. But with the principle of women wanting to feel entertained by some outside influences cheating would be right up their ball park?