I'm 38 and living with a stranger! 3 yrs ago my longtime boyfriend fell asleep while driving and now he can't walk without crutches cause his whole right side doesnt work. He is angry and bitches alllllllll the time about stupid stuff and I can't take it! I've been here since day one to help him and he treats me so bad like he hates me and blames all kind of stuff on me. Now that he doesnt do or go anywhere because he chooses not to he gets mad if I wanna go out with the girls or anywhere really. Says im mean for leaving him home. I've lost my social life because it became to much to argue if I wanna get out to socialize? Big fight tonight because he was mad again about something so stup and he waved his crutch around and blocked it cause I feel uncomfortable around him because of the mood swings. Who knows what our partners are capible doing to us during they're fits of anger! Pretty sure I broke my finger. I can't do this anymore but damn I know his life will be harder if he has to live on his own! I feel stuck and im so unhappy and I'm not that kinda person. I love life and just wanna be happy. Oh and we have a wonderful 13 yr old boy and he Iis saying he's had enough and wants to live with just me in a happy environment!
Please help!!!
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It sounds like your boyfriend may need some counseling to help him cope with how the accident has changed his life. This trauma has affected not only his quality of life, but you and your son's as well. Its not fair to you when you are there being supportive and helping as much as you can.
December 30, 2015 - 8:21amSee what you can do to get him some counseling and look into therapy options that will help him become more independent. Don't compromise your own happiness. Ultimately, you can not continue to remain in what seems like an abusive relationship. I know you feel bad about what's happened to him, but you may have to make some tough but necessary decisions. You and your child are worth it and deserve to be treated with love and respect above everything else.
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