Sexual side effects

It's the amount of orgasms that cause the flare up cause me and my wife are exeriencing the same thing. We came a lot. More than we ever did!

You should also look into non-latex condoms. I am latex sensitive and used non latex and the rawness issue went away.

Thank you! This was the only place I could find a reason for the hemorrhoid flare-ups after vaginal intercourse.

Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your question and for finding EmpowHER. Sex can inflame hemorrhoids, but not how you might think. When you become aroused, the genital and anal area becomes engorged with blood flow. This increased pressure on the anal area can cause hemorrhoids to flare up. Also bare in mind that anal sex definitely can cause flare ups. Some suggest making sure to treat hemorrhoids, and avoid sex when experiencing flare ups to avoid excess pressure in the area. Things you can do at home include:
- Use topical treatments
- Soak regularly in a warm bath or sitz bath
- Keep the anal area clean
- Don't use dry toilet paper
- Apply cold
- Take oral pain relievers
If you experience of marked amount of bleeding, or excess pain, and don't improve with home remedies, talk with a doctor about seeking treatment.
In regard to your "rawness" issue, try using a water-based lubricant, and see if the problem resolves itself. If you experience more pain, and symptoms, ask your doctor.
Good luck, and let us know how else we can help you.