me and my boyfriend had sex Alfie first time and it can go in more then half way and feel good but after that I get a really really bad pain and the pain feels like an extreme amount of pressure does this mean we haven't broke the hymen

Hello Anon

Thank you for your post.

You may or may not have a hymen. Many women who are virgin's don't. They could be born without one, lose it in many ways including exercise, biking, horse-riding or other activities. A hymen is not a direct connection to virginity. Sex in the beginning can be difficult - often through nerves and awkwardness. Use of a lubricant can help.
Susan