I don’t enjoy sex. It is usually painful and dry

Hello Anon

Thank you for writing!

I'm sorry you are having these difficulties. Vaginal dryness can cause sex to be very painful. You need to work on that before worrying about making your partner go crazy! If you are not comfortable, he won't be.

Are you in menopause? Are you taking any kind of medication that could be causing this dryness and discomfort? We have many suggestions for you depending on your circumstances but we don't have a lot to go on.

If you are menopausal or peri-menopausal, copy and paste our link here: https://www.empowher.com/menopause/content/there-sex-after-menopause and let us know what you think!

If there are other reasons why sex is painful (nerve damage, injuries, emotional issues...) please let us know.
Best,
Susan