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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?
PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(
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Hi Anonymous,
October 11, 2010 - 12:01pmIf you truly haven't had a period in 7mo. it's time to call your doctor and get in to see them to figure out what's going on. They generally want to see you if you have gone 90 days without one. There are conditions that can cause you to not get your period in addition to pregnancy that the doctor will need to rule out.
Good luck and let us know what happens. Your experience may be able to help someone else. Please come back with an update.
-Christine
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Hi, i took the morning after pill but got my period the next day nd was unwell, my period was due on da 30th of september nd still hasnt come! As well as this my breasts are tender nd hard do you think these are indicators to being pregnant or my head playing games with me!
Please write back asap
October 5, 2010 - 2:10pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
October 6, 2010 - 11:16amThank you for your question. Have you taken a pregnancy test? That would be the surest way to know if you are pregnant, or if your cycle is messed up from taking PlanB.
Here is an article about emergency contraception that may help answer your questions:
https://www.empowher.com/sex-amp-relationships/content/emergency-contraception-update-2010
Good luck and let us know how you are doing.
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Hi, erm... me and my boyfriend havn't had sex yet but we're experimenting kinda. It got to the point when he rubbed his penis against my clitoris and placed it right on the outside of my vagina. No entry. And then he said 'hang on' looked down and moved his penis away towards us and he came on my thigh. I'm pretty sure that he came all on my thigh and he says that too. But since then I've been getting paranoid that I could be pregnant. My periods supposed to be due round now and the end of the month and I've started to get bad cramps in my lower abdomen. No-one knows besides me and my boyfriend. Could I be pregnant? Or are these cramps signs that my periods about to come? It happened about 3 weeks ago and I'm due round now. Please reply, I need to know
September 23, 2010 - 12:31pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
September 23, 2010 - 12:49pmThanks for your question and for finding EmpowHER.
Penis to vagina contact is risky, but you're probably not pregnant if what actually happened is what you said happened. Experimentation is fun, but it doesn't need to be stressful. Before you go any further, learn all you can about how to prevent unwanted STDs and pregnancy. You may want to make an appointment with a doctor to have your first gynecological appointment and learn about proper birth control.
This article also may help dispel some myths:
https://www.empowher.com/sex-amp-relationships/content/misconceptions-sex
Good luck, have fun, be safe!
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CAN A GIRL BE PREGNANT AND HAVE HER PERIOD? DOES VAGINAL BLEEDING STARTS AND STOPS AT THE TIME OF PERIOD?
September 23, 2010 - 2:40pmThis Comment
No. If you have a period, you are not pregnant. If you are pregnant, you do not have a period. That would be a miscarriage.
September 23, 2010 - 7:36pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
September 1, 2010 - 9:26amAnytime you have sex without any kind of protection you put yourself at risk for unwanted pregnancy and STDs. The withdrawal method (ejaculating on your stomach) is not a reliable form of birth control because of what is called pre-cum. When a guy is erect, his penis can secrete this fluid which does contain sperm. When that sperm comes into contact with your vagina, you are at risk for pregnancy, etc.
There is lengthy discussion about this topic. Check out the answers given, and educate yourself about safe sex. It's not just a tagline--if you're old enough to fool around, you can (and should) be responsible and protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STDs. Get some condoms, spermicide, and/or get on the pill. Sex should be fun and exciting, not stressful.
Here is an article explaining misconceptions about sex:
https://www.empowher.com/sex-amp-relationships/content/misconceptions-sex
Here is more discussion about pregnancy, etc.:
https://www.empowher.com/condition/pregnancy
Good luck, and let us know if you have additional questions.
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i have had sex with my boyfriend witouht protection but he ejaculated on my stomach and we did not have sex after that, is there still a chance i could be pregnant ?
September 1, 2010 - 9:03amThis Comment
Does the uterus grow in size when the menstruation starts?
August 25, 2010 - 5:20pmThis Comment