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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

Try to relax. It was risky for your boyfriend to penetrate your vagina without using a condom. For conception to happen, you must be ovulating and he must ejaculate. Your are at risk for becoming pregnant if you have unprotected sexual intercourse five days before ovulation and on the day of ovulation.

I think there is a very low to no chance that you could have become pregnant from this encounter. But, if your period is late beyond one week, take a home pregnancy test.

Now that you have become sexually active, you need to think seriously about using some form of birth control yourself.

Regards,
Maryann

September 12, 2013 - 5:13pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

Try to relax. It was risky for your boyfriend to penetrate your vagina without using a condom. For conception to happen, you must be ovulating and he must ejaculate. Your are at risk for becoming pregnant if you have unprotected sexual intercourse five days before ovulation and on the day of ovulation.

I think there is a very low to no chance that you could have become pregnant from this encounter. But, if your period is late beyond one week, take a home pregnancy test.

Now that you have become sexually active, you need to think seriously about using some form of birth control yourself.

Regards,
Maryann

September 12, 2013 - 5:12pm
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Thank you so very much, your response has made me less nervous. I will just wait until my period gets here next week, thank you and have a great night!

September 12, 2013 - 5:41pm
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Anonymous

hi mis cody
my bf rub his penis on the top my vagina but not insert and ejaculation occur, im scared i might be pregnant this was on the 31 of august, then after 10 mins. i had my period..my question is will i get pregnant in this case? thankz

September 7, 2013 - 8:17pm
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Anonymous

I got married few weeks back. Me and my husband were trying to make sex, but he couldn't insert his whole penis into my vagina. I scream of pain when he tries to push forward. But last night we tried and he is able to insert most of the part of his penis. I couldn't enjoy it except the pain. I heard girls enjoy sex more than boys. But, even the pain reduced gradually, I don't know why I couldn't enjoy sex. I didn't feel anything. Is it due to my tension or is it because I am scared I will get pain? My husband said he enjoyed sex. Please help me out. I don't know what to do.

September 5, 2013 - 7:54pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

susan plz reply to my question.. hav been waitingg.. plz

September 18, 2013 - 5:55pm

Hi i hope you could help me with this one.

I have same situation, he did not inserted his penis in me only the head but not the whole head bcause its my first time it was painful in the beginning thats why we did not continue inserting it anymore. I felt like im going to pee thats why. When i was in the bathroom i didnt pee nothing is coming out. But when i got up theres a fluid dripping down. I am so sure that there is no coming happend because he was not even that ejaculated. Just worrying though. Please help me. Some of my friends told me that it is my own juice.

September 2, 2013 - 9:00pm
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Anonymous

If my period comes within these few days, is it means that I am not pregnant? Between, when is the proper time for me to use home pregnancy test?

September 2, 2013 - 9:23am
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Anonymous

5 days ago on 29 august, me and my boyfriend masturbated for each other and he put his glans penis into my vagina for about 1 inch and he withdraw it within seconds. Is it going to cause pregnancy to me? I had my last period in end of July or beginning of august. But for the time being, what can I do to confirm whether I had a pregnant?

September 2, 2013 - 8:11am
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Anonymous

hey I have sex with my bf he rub their penis but not insert but by rubbing suddenly penis tip go inside and I feel swear pain n little bit blood? can I became pregnant?

August 29, 2013 - 11:26am
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