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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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Anon,
Preseminal fluid is the clear, colorless fluid that is often seen when a man is aroused-- by no means does he have to ejaculate for it to be seen. Although there is a possibility that there can be sperm in his pre-seminal fluid, it isn't as common as you may think. I can't say if he ejaculated or not, whether you were moving slow or not a man can get excited and ejaculate. If your boyfriend is inexperienced and does not know how it feels to ejaculate, then it may be better to go on the safe side and take an emergency contraceptive such as Plan B. Birth control pills are not used as emergency contraceptives-- if you were on your birth control pills before engaging in sexual activities then you were protected.
Best of luck!
April 7, 2011 - 5:57amThis Comment
PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION ASAP!!!!! IM SCARED.
April 6, 2011 - 6:59pmThis Comment
can sprintec be used as the morning after pill??? will it work??? if i try how many pilkls can i take???
April 6, 2011 - 7:26pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
You cannot get pregnant from your boyfriend, touching sperm, wiping it off and then touching you! Sperm does not absorb so you are completely safe. If you have any additional concerns, please read out Outercourse article here https://www.empowher.com/community/share/outercourse-dry-humping-dry-sex-and-other-sexual-behaviors.
I hope this helps,
April 2, 2011 - 9:15amMissie
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hi can i ask a question..?me and my bf were rubbing our genitals for some seconds..and i had i-pill after 24 hours..and my hymen is intact..is there any chances of pregnancy after emergency contraception...?plz help me by answering this question..
March 28, 2011 - 1:25amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
March 28, 2011 - 7:29amIf you were just rubbing your genitals and there wasn't ejaculate near your vagina, there is virtually no risk of pregnancy. I'm not sure why you took the i-pill. I'm not a doctor, but according to my knowledge of sex and conception, there is no chance you are pregnant.
Here are some articles that may help provide some insight:
Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, and The Misconceptions of Sex.
If you feel you may have sex soon, now is the time to arm yourself with information and get on some regular birth control (condoms, birth control pills, etc.). Good luck, and let us know how you're doing.
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me and my boyfriend were doing stuff to eachother including fingering, hand jobs, and blow jobs. after a few minutes of a hand job/blow job he cummed. i'm not sure if he got any on his fingers/hands when he cummed. but after, he wiped off his hands. he fingered me a few minutes after cleaning up the cum and i just wanted to know if there is any chance i could be pregnant.
April 1, 2011 - 6:41pmThis Comment
I have taken birth control for a while now, but when i finished my last cycle, I couldn't fill my birth control pack until about a week and a half later. During that time, my bf and I did not have sex, but his penis did touch my vagina, and I'm pretty sure there was pre-cum. A week later I went back on BC, and have been on it for 3 weeks.
What do you think of this??
March 21, 2011 - 5:36pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
There is always that slight possibility but I would say from your description that it is highly unlikely. If you have concerns about starting a sexual relationship and (not on birth control methods) be sure to always have him wear a condom. That will be helpful and calm your nerves.
I hope this helps.
March 13, 2011 - 3:07pmMissie
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My boyfriend and I were fooling around and he tried to insert his head into my vagina. I felt it before to make sure there was no pre-cum or anything on it. he also told me that his penis did not even go in but i'm still worried.
March 13, 2011 - 2:13pmshould i get the plan b pill or wait? my bf told me not to worry cause he didn't even go in but i'm still paranoid....
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