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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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G'day, I got a couple of questions.
A couple of weeks ago, my Girlfriend and I were doing foreplay (our genitals revealed though) my penis had pre-cum. Unfortunately, I touched it. But I wiped it off on some clothes and went to finger her. Could this get her pregnant? We're both virgins
Also, we're thinking of having sex for the first time, and I was just wondering, if the guys feel themselves ejaculate for the first time? Because, I had inserted my penis inside a little, but pulled away slowly and I thought I felt my self ejaculate but it wasn't really "explosive' I then touched my penis and it was slightly wet, (around where the urethra was though) I thought this could be her lubricants, or I had ejaculated or just pre-cum. I'm not sure, I need some help on this.
She is also getting a sore stomach when she wakes up. But, she also had it once at around 11 PM.
I need to know this thing. It was stupid of me to not use protection, and I don't want to hear it. I just want my mind at ease.
Thank you :)
August 5, 2011 - 8:49pmThis Comment
Anonymous,
if you wiped the pre-cum properly from your hand and then fingered her, she would probably be safe.
However, you penis in her vagina even as you said "a little" gives chances for pregnancy, Even if you didn't ejaculate because pre-cum could cause pregnancy if it still contains sperms from a previous ejaculation (and you can't feel yourself pre-cum). However, you should be feeling yourself ejaculate.
You said you were with you girl friend a couple of weeks ago. Then I am assuming it passed 14 days since the day you had the sexual activity? If yes, She could take a Home Pregnancy Test at this point. It is up to 99% effective, not that expensive, easy to use, and sold to everyone at any age above the counter in big supermarkets and pharmacies (In the US)
Best Wishes.
August 6, 2011 - 12:23amThis Comment
That made me feel better, thank you. I had urinated a few times before that. So, I guess everything is okay.
One other thing, sorry. She has had her period 3 times in three months around the same date, but it's a week late. However, she does have an irregular cycle, sometimes not having it for maybe 4 months or somrthing. Is that anything to worry about
August 6, 2011 - 3:52amThis Comment
P.s. I also thought my possibly ejaculation, was the sensitivity of my penis and my mind playing tricks on me.
August 5, 2011 - 8:53pmThis Comment
You know you probably won't. It takes direct ejaculation right on in there. As for the virginity, you just lost that.
July 20, 2011 - 1:16pmThis Comment
When i said that i meant that with in the 7 weeks she said that she does not think she has been on her period.
July 20, 2011 - 12:38pmThis Comment
yeah soo one day me and my gf were just fooling around. and touch the tip of my penis onto her vagina for liek a few seconds. and i wasnt fully erect at the time but may have had a little precum. we didnt have sex it was ujst my tip touch her vagina. my gf told me she doesnt thin she's had her period for a awhile and the day we fooled around was about 7 weeks ago. she also did say she just threw up once. im not sure why though. how likely is it that she got pregnant???? i need to know ASAP!!!
July 20, 2011 - 9:29amThis Comment
unfortunately, pre-cum does sometimes contain sperm.
July 20, 2011 - 12:25pmyou can actually get her pregnant even if you had only your tip touching her vagina, it is rare however, possible.
Not sure what do you mean by "my gf told me she doesn't thin she's had her period for a awhile".
however, if the incident happened 7 weeks ago, then she could definitely take a home-pregnancy test and check.
be careful and best of luck
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Am I pregnant? My BF and i Were fooling around couple days ago and he was fingering me and I got wet then his penis barely entered my vagina and he didn't cum or pre-ejaculate. Are the chances high cause I no I'm at risk, but is it highly likely?
June 20, 2011 - 4:04amThis Comment
Hi Anon,
You're chances of being pregnant are slim. But at least you know that it is a possibility if you did have intercourse even if it was just a little bit.
Rosa
June 21, 2011 - 6:57amThis Comment