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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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(reply to Anonymous)

Dear Anonymous, 

If your boyfriend did not ejaculate inside of you then you aren't pregnant-- this is why you keep getting negative results. 

Keep in mind that stress is likely the #1 reason for a late or missed period (aside from pregnancy). The more you continue to stress over this, the later your period will get-- you may even miss your period this month and NOT be pregnant. 

How late is your period? If you miss it 2 months straight, please see your doctor-- unless you already know that you have irregular periods. 

Best,

Rosa

December 2, 2011 - 8:04am
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Anonymous

we had sex with my BF on nov.26 my last period is nov7. can i be pregnant? we have sex 8 days before my period can i be pregnant?

November 29, 2011 - 10:14am

if you are "exposed" you run the risk of pregnancy.

November 29, 2011 - 8:22am
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Anonymous

i got intimate with my b.fnb yesterday....he entrd his penis into vagina vry hardly for a mintue nd he dint discharge into the vagina he discharge ovr the floor am i pregnant?????????????????????????????????????plz tell me iam so tensd

November 28, 2011 - 11:39pm
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

Even if it was just a minute, there's a possibility of pregnancy--especially because he did ejaculate and we don't know if there was any "precum" involved, which may or may not contain sperm. Please wait for your period to arrive, if it is late the take a pregnancy test. 

To the other anonymous poster above: Your girlfriend needs to wait at least 2 weeks or until her period is missed to get an accurate pregnancy test result.

Good luck,

Rosa

November 29, 2011 - 7:01am
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Anonymous

Hi ! I had an intercourse with my partner with a condom. we noticed that there was some white thick fluid on his lower abdomen after we were done. The condom was intact. We are unsure if the fluid was from my body or his. It was my 12th day of cycle. I am unsure if i will be pregnant. Please advice.

November 27, 2011 - 12:04pm
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Anonymous

how many days to confirmed that your partner is pregnant after having sex? reply please asap!

November 27, 2011 - 7:59am
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Anonymous

hey! me and my girldfriend had sex yesterday. and she is 15. how many days would it take that she is pregnant? can u give me some possible signs of being pregnant after sex. REPLY ASAP! tnx

November 27, 2011 - 7:50am
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Anonymous

hi
i m 22 years old and my bf is 23. i last had my periods on 19th of oct and on 29 th oct my bf and i were close to each other, he rubbed his penis over my flaps but that was for hardly few seconds.
i m a virgin, and m scared of pregnancy. its 26th of november today and i still have not had my periods, although he says he had no precum and i have had no symptoms of early pregnancy, but since past 2 days.... im getting vaginal cramps and my thighs are paining.....although my periods normally shift a few days ahead, but i m scared
please temme can all this lead to pregnancy or these are just symptoms of periods

November 26, 2011 - 2:09am
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anonymous,

If there were no body fluids involved, then you have no chance of being pregnant. Please wait for your period to arrive, remember that stress can cause a delay. If you want to ease your mind, just take a pregnancy test.

Best,

Rosa

November 26, 2011 - 1:53pm
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