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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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Hi Anonymous,
This is a tough call.

I think the chances of you getting pregnant from this sexual encounter is very low. Since your boyfriend ejaculated outside of your vagina,there is little chance that sperm entered your vagina.

However, ten days before your period is probably when you are ovulating or releasing an egg from one of your ovaries.

Taking an emergency contraceptive can prevent pregnancy after unprotected sex, but, it also has side effects like causing changes to your menstrual cycle.

Those are the pros and cons and the choice is yours to make.

Maryann

April 4, 2012 - 5:57pm
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Anonymous

Hi, i'm 17, today my boyfriend and I were fooling around and he tried to put it in, it's quite difficult because I tense up a lot but he achieved getting just the head in so he moved with that. I told him to stop and he withdrew before climaxing on my stomach. I'm only 10 days away from my next period but i'm still anxious to know now so I can try and get a morning after pill. I've been very worried. Is there any chance I could be pregnant? Please reply...

April 4, 2012 - 5:43pm
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Anonymous

@aniquezz same exact thing happened with my bf. I'm in the same boat, we want to wait till marriage but things just got out of control. I was just wondering if you did get pregnant or not? And how long did you wait until you took a test? Your response would be MUCH appreciated, thank you (:

April 2, 2012 - 12:47am
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Anonymous

Hi Anonymous,

Thank you for your question and welcome to Empowher. You are fine, no worries. You are having periods since the touching occurred and therefore, you are not pregnant. If it would make you feel better, buy a pregnancy test and that will settle your stress or nerves. You can usually buy one for only a dollar at a local Dollar Store. Hope this helps.

Missie

April 1, 2012 - 3:48pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Oh gosh, really? You think I'm alright? Because this has being weighing on my mind heavily. I can't help it, no matter how sure I am that I'm ok... but it's still terrifying. I've been trying to get my hands on a test for a week or so, but it's extremely difficult. Do you think it's just stress changing my hormones?

April 1, 2012 - 3:55pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Why is it so hard to get a test? Go to a local dollar tree and spend $1 for a test, walk out, pee on the stick and see. It's not that complicated.

April 11, 2012 - 7:22pm
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Anonymous

Alright, so I know this is a pretty common issue for teens: but I'm terrified that I'm pregnant.

I'm sixteen, almost seventeen, and have NOT had sex. I repeat, I have NOT had sex... but there WAS genital contact. Very brief, only a few minutes... but that's all it take, eh? I am not sure, but it is possible (and likely) that there was pre-ejaculatory liquid on the tip, though the tip and vaginal lips only touched for a brief moment, and he had used the restroom no more than an hour and a half before.

It's been two months since then, and I had two periods. The first was late by roughly week. The next one was on time... but here, my third one is late. The last two were accompanied by severe cramps, as well as being the usual five days, and bleeding my normal amount (if that's the proper term).

But... I've been very sluggish for the last month, not wanting to do anything at all, and have been sleeping in extreme excess. I've had bubbly type gas in my stomach for the past week, as well as the fact my breasts have grown a cup size. I have also noticed I've put on a bit of weight around my stomach as well. I think I've been freaking myself out about my breasts, and while they didn't seem overly sensitive before, or darker, I think I've been making it so in my head. I had heart burn once, but my entire family did that night, and I had been nauseous for the last few days (it's gone now)... but I think that was just nerves. I've had a lot of vaginal discharge, but I can't tell if it's more than usual.

I have been extremely stressed out as well, and have been told repeatedly that I am NOT pregnant... but some reassurance would me nice. I'm sorry for the excess information, but I'm afraid.

Someone please help me? All my thanks.

April 1, 2012 - 3:31pm

is it alright to eat sperm from my girlfriend after she gives me oral
she thinks she will get pregnant if I give her oral after she passes it to me
I like putting it on her vagina by mouth
this way we wont get her pregnant
does it have to go all in and deeper than the vaginal lips for this

April 1, 2012 - 1:34pm
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Anonymous (reply to male.looking)

You may want to reconsider this.
I've never heard of anyone doing this, no less a male re-eating his own sperm, that sounds insanely gross.
And YES, obviously putting semen in or on her vagina could get her pregnant....common sense!

April 7, 2012 - 8:18am
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Anonymous

My GF and I were having fun just pleasuring orally and manually, she was giving me oral sex when i came in her mouth. she then kissed me with all of my sperm, I then gave her oral pleasure, spitting all of the semen in her vagina. I was told once it was airborn it dies. is this true? she wants to get tested today, we dont want babies

March 30, 2012 - 3:03am
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