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Anyone using the Mirena IUD have a low sex drive?

By April 24, 2009 - 1:10pm
 
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Low Libido

Mine is almost non existant! :o(

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I am 27 and had my first child 5 months ago. I went and had the Mirena IUD placed during my 6 week check up. After years of not liking or taking the pill correctly, hating the side effects of the depo shot and just not enjoying the thought of having to use condoms with my significant other of 8yrs. The doctor suggested the IUD and made me feel like this was going to be an awesome form of BC. C'mon no periods after a certain amount of time, the $avings on famine products or monthly BC and having peace of mind for 5 years. Well, lately I am debating taking mine out.... especially after reading a large amount of other women's comments on here. I will share my issues but FIRST: most of these women's stories that I have read where women remove theirs and "feel" much better they DON'T mention what alternative birth control they are now using. This is my biggest concern. WHAT TO USE AFTER I TAKE IT OUT? So,what I thought my biggest issue was hair loss. I mean, LOTS! I even had my husband see how much came out after every shower just to prove I wasn't being over dramatic. He was so freaked out my a few months of it and convinced to me call my doc. The doctor didn't see me just had me do thyroid blood work to rule it out. When it came back all normal he said this is a common hormonal change. I went and got a short hair cut and am just dealing with it. Next, is the NO sex drive. I wasn't much of a sexual person before this but at least wanted to be intimate occasionally. Now I don't think about sex and when the thought does pop into my head I get grossed out and shutter at the thoughts of sexual acts. I even angrily changed the channels during the wee early hours when those "dirty" commercials come on. Another inclination that something was wrong was when my man started rubbing my shoulders I became almost repulsed and shivered (shaking him off) I felt horrible in the way that made him feel. We had a long talk about it and how I hope this issue doesn't last. I said it feels psychological and could be a combination of everything: new baby, stress, body complex, exhaustion, and just something else.... deeper. Now, after researching 'low sex drive from iud' I am convinced the IUD is the reason. I dont know about weight gain bcuz I did just have a baby and I am not as active as I was before. I still am spotting blood off and on and I have not had any depression which I am very grateful of. Anyways, if you have taken your iud out what form of birth control did you end up using?

January 29, 2014 - 11:03pm
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Anonymous

I have had my iud for three yrs now...my sex drive is zero...tonight while trying to have intercourse my hb informed me that we might have only a few more years before our marriage ends....I blame the iud for ruining my marriage but do not have insurance to have it removed....I am heart broken that something so stupid as an iud can ruin a marriage of 13 yrs.........

January 25, 2014 - 10:13pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

You can get it yanked at planned parenthood or a similar low-cost place for free. I had one put in for free, and they'll take it out whenever I want. 0.o

March 29, 2014 - 3:48pm
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Anonymous

So after reading some of these comments I have come to the conclusion that my IUD is making the problems in my marriage. I have no want for intercourse. I am getting this stupid thing out ASAP!!!!!!!

January 11, 2014 - 10:31am
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Anonymous

It's so nice to see that not batshit crazy (though of course I'd rather we didn't have these issues).

Had the mc fitted about a year and a half ago, having it fitted was so incredible painful I couldn't move for days. Pretty much had a period for 6 months straight, barely anything since then. That's the good side of it, however, I've had absolutely zero sex drive, nada. Haven't had sex in a year. Needless to say, that's not an ideal situation, plus I'm getting married next year!!! When I first went back to the drs, I was told "it'll sort itself out", after 18 months I've had no improvement. My biggest problem now us, due to the pain of having it out in, I'm too terrified to have it removed. Anyone who's had it removed, was it as bad?

October 25, 2013 - 6:45pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

It doesn't hurt at all coming out, thankfully! It's just like having a pap smear...slightly uncomfortable but not painful and over quickly! Good luck!

February 9, 2015 - 7:52pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I came to the conclusion... slowly that the merina was bad for my health. I suffered massive weight gain over 2 years, struggled with diets and lost 3 stone which went on immediatley when only eating normally and pretty healthily.... I suffer terrible migraines and after about a year lost my sex drive altogether... I had put it down to depression from longterm back pain but after researching merina thouroughly on numerous sites around the world I concluded it was responsible... in america and australia there are massive law suits over it. I took mine out myself tonighy slowly with no pain (mine was excrutiating when inserted)
I will now see if I can get happy, healthy, lose weight and get my sex drive back.... by all accounts this happens within weeks...
good luck

November 6, 2013 - 3:10pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I removed mine myself - just squatted down reached in and pulled gently and slowly on the string - that's what the doctor is going to do. No it doesn't hurt to remove it. I should probably suggest you go to the doctor to do it, but honestly it was easy and painless to remove. I had spotting for a couple of days and started feeling better in a couple of weeks. Good luck - but don't delay. That thing is an awful form of birth control IMHO.

October 26, 2013 - 2:10am
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Anonymous

I am going crazy, I think.
So I am on Mirena #2 as of July. I don't remember having issues in the beginning with the first one, but I have absolutely no libido/sex drive at this time. It sucks, I feel bad for my boyfriend, I want to want to have sex with him and yet I have no interest. I have been sleep deprived and a bit stressed out but that has never caused me to not at all be interested in sex prior. There can be an hour of foreplay and I can't even get excited. I am not sure who else has had this issue and what you have decided to do. I would prefer not to have my periods, it is better for me medically and I loved my first mirena. I also don't know I have read that the first 6 months of a new one it releases more estrogen that depletes your level of testosterone, so maybe I should just wait it out.

October 2, 2013 - 5:31am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Thank you! This is EXACTLY my situation. No problems at all with Mirena #1, and now with Mirena #2 (inserted about 6 months ago) I have no desire whatsoever. I also feel awful for his sake. I don't know whether to try taking it out to see if that solves the problem because it was expensive and I don't want to throw that money down the drain if it wasn't the problem after all. But hey, what's the point of having birth control if we are barely even doing the deed right now anyway?

November 27, 2013 - 9:52am
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