Hi Sydney,
"Dry sex" means there is no bodily fluids that come into contact with the other person, so both people would need to have their clothes on.
Losing one's virginity would mean that your boyfriend's penis is inserted into your vagina. This is not possible with clothes on. He can rub his penis on your vagina OVER underwear, and as long as his penis does not "slip" or enter your vagina, you would still be considered a virgin.
If you wear underwear, and your boyfriend is rubbing his penis on your vagina (OVER your underwear) and he ejaculates, semen could potentially spill over your underwear on the side... you know how your underwear does not hug tightly against your body at your thighs? There are big gaps in women's underwear, and it is plausible in the right circumstances that in the "heat of the moment" that enough quantity and force of ejaculatory fluid could come into contact with the vagina.
Basically, however, penetration of the penis into the vagina needs to occur for a pregnancy to be possible.
If you BOTH have clothes on, and he ejaculates, his sperm can not go through clothes. This would be considered "safer sex" and "dry sex", and is a great option for you to be physically intimate with your boyfriend, while protecting your virginity and zero chances of pregnancy.
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Hi Sydney,
"Dry sex" means there is no bodily fluids that come into contact with the other person, so both people would need to have their clothes on.
Losing one's virginity would mean that your boyfriend's penis is inserted into your vagina. This is not possible with clothes on. He can rub his penis on your vagina OVER underwear, and as long as his penis does not "slip" or enter your vagina, you would still be considered a virgin.
If you wear underwear, and your boyfriend is rubbing his penis on your vagina (OVER your underwear) and he ejaculates, semen could potentially spill over your underwear on the side... you know how your underwear does not hug tightly against your body at your thighs? There are big gaps in women's underwear, and it is plausible in the right circumstances that in the "heat of the moment" that enough quantity and force of ejaculatory fluid could come into contact with the vagina.
Basically, however, penetration of the penis into the vagina needs to occur for a pregnancy to be possible.
If you BOTH have clothes on, and he ejaculates, his sperm can not go through clothes. This would be considered "safer sex" and "dry sex", and is a great option for you to be physically intimate with your boyfriend, while protecting your virginity and zero chances of pregnancy.
For more information, please review these articles: Am I Pregnant after Dry Sex, Making Out with Clothes On? and Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex and The Misconceptions of Sex
October 24, 2010 - 7:51amThis Comment
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