Hi,
A home pregnancy test would not be reliable until you have missed your period, and it has been at least 2 weeks since unprotected sex.
I would not trust a boyfriend that does not know if he ejaculated or not inside of you...that is not telling the truth. A man knows when he ejaculates. I wonder if he means that he is not sure if he ejaculated near/on your vagina (instead of only inside?).
He should be worried that you might be pregnant; anytime you have unprotected sex, there is a chance of pregnancy. However, it sounds like you DO want to be pregnant, and he is scared that you could be? Have you two talked about these differences? Is he ready to be a father, as you are ready to be a mother? How old are both of you? Is he financially stable, since you said you do not have employment?
Birth control pills are safe to take, but I'm not sure if you are using them...you said you had unprotected sex? You mean sex without a condom, but were you taking birth control pills at the time every day? If you are having protected sex (protected from pregnancy by using birth control pills), then your chance of pregnancy is less than 1%.
I am confused: you want to be pregnant, but you are taking the pill? Your boyfriend does not want you to be pregnant, and he does not know if he ejaculated in you or not? You both sound very young, not educated about sex (and should perhaps wait on having sex) or not quite telling the entire story???
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Hi,
A home pregnancy test would not be reliable until you have missed your period, and it has been at least 2 weeks since unprotected sex.
I would not trust a boyfriend that does not know if he ejaculated or not inside of you...that is not telling the truth. A man knows when he ejaculates. I wonder if he means that he is not sure if he ejaculated near/on your vagina (instead of only inside?).
He should be worried that you might be pregnant; anytime you have unprotected sex, there is a chance of pregnancy. However, it sounds like you DO want to be pregnant, and he is scared that you could be? Have you two talked about these differences? Is he ready to be a father, as you are ready to be a mother? How old are both of you? Is he financially stable, since you said you do not have employment?
Birth control pills are safe to take, but I'm not sure if you are using them...you said you had unprotected sex? You mean sex without a condom, but were you taking birth control pills at the time every day? If you are having protected sex (protected from pregnancy by using birth control pills), then your chance of pregnancy is less than 1%.
I am confused: you want to be pregnant, but you are taking the pill? Your boyfriend does not want you to be pregnant, and he does not know if he ejaculated in you or not? You both sound very young, not educated about sex (and should perhaps wait on having sex) or not quite telling the entire story???
October 3, 2010 - 11:10amThis Comment
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