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Have you considered that this is not about you, and that you do have a normal boyfriend?

I am surprised by the vast number of women who subscribe to the stereotypes that men are "not normal" if they do not want sex! They are human, too, and not everyone wants to have sex at every moment. Men can also find sex to have its negative aspects, too, and still enjoy sex for the most part. Some of the negative aspects of sex that both men and women can experience include: the "requirement" to perform or please someone else, a partner who is unsympathetic or demanding, a partner who is insecure or selfish, etc. People, regardless of gender, can be stressed, tired, bloated, gassy, achy, sad...all of these physical and emotional symptoms that does not help one to feel "in the mood" or "sexy" or "giving". Sex is a two-way street, and sometimes it is difficult to get into that "giving spirit"; sex is not necessarily a great escape like they show in the movies! Maybe this guy, who has said "no" to you for the first time ever, is being real.