I have problems achieving orgasm and I think my partner is getting discouraged.
I haven't been able to orgasm with said partner, and it's starting to frustrate me. Not gonna lie, I broke up with a long-term boyfriend a few months ago and since then I haven't really thought about sex even in terms of masturbating. It's just one of those things I've pushed to the back of my mind which is easy with all my hw I have to do... To be honest, I tried and I can't get myself off, I can enjoy stimulation and I feel like I'm getting close but then I don't follow through because I'm afraid of peeing or something. This is honestly a really big hump for me and I'm not sure how to get over it. For a while I just haven't cared about sex, but now that I've started up again, it's all i can think about and I'm frustrated. I really want to get over this before my partner gets too disinterested and stops trying or decides to stop entirely, but of course also for my own self.
Please help! I need suggestions. I really just want to get over this hurdle, I'm not sure if it's entirely mental, physical, or emotional, but if anyone has insight or suggestions, please comment!
I just uploaded an article on my blog site called, How to Achieve the Big 'O' and More, which offers some valuable insights about how to orgasm and why some women struggle with it. Also, at the end of the article is a 6-minute MP3 downloadable Guided Meditation to help you relax and experience a deep breathing excercise to help manage your pelvic muscles so you can evoke orgasm much easier. Check out: http://www.oceanusnaturals.com/blog/how-to-achieve-the-big-%e2%80%98o%e2%80%99-and-more/
November 18, 2010 - 12:01pmThis Comment