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Hello,
Lately me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and we had alot of pregnancy scares like getting pregnant through dry humping and we learned over time that this is impossible especially with clothes on, but the thing we are worried about now is pregnancy through fingering or touching each other and touching ourselves at the same time. Of course even though we get caught up in the moment, we are still very careful. There was one day when we were doing these things and we washed our hands before we touch each other and im not sure if he washed his hands thoroughly and im really scared because he came a little bit and whiped it off and washed his hands but im still scared. And today im feeling like mini cramps usually signaling me that my period is coming up but im still scared :( please help me???? :(
-worried
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Hi, am 22
August 15, 2016 - 9:43pmAbout 2 weeks ago me and my gf were fooling around..she blew me and it lasted just for 10-15 secs coz I wasn't feeling comfortable and I didnt ejaculate..I put my penis back in my pants with my right hand.
Then we kissed for sometime and I fingered her with my left hand..
After that we stopped for a while as she was in pain and again started fingering with my right hand..
Pretty sure it was all dry..
Now she has early periods...a week early..
Could she be pregnant?
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Hi Anonymous,
She is not pregnant because she is having her period.
Regards,
August 16, 2016 - 9:44amMaryann
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So my boyfriend fingered me for the first time the first weekend in August(4,5,6 or 5,6,7) and the week after I got my period(10-15). I Then started a new seizure medicine and the next month I got what I believed to be my period but it was a lot lighter and I don't know if it was the medicine that caused this or what( Sep. 10-14). This is what freaked me out. The next time he came home was September 16-18 and we messed around then but I made sure that he washed his hands. Then he came home the next weekend (22-25) and we messed around then too, I made sure that he washed his hands every time except once
October 4, 2016 - 7:34amThis Comment
Hi. During mutual masturbation my boyfriend came on my lower abdomen near the pelvis bone and then he fingered me. He didn't touch his penis or directly touch me where his come was, but I don't remember exactly whether there were contact that he could have gotten come on his fingers. Is there a risk of pregnancy?
August 13, 2016 - 4:02amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
There would be a risk if he had fresh semen on his finger when he inserted it into your vagina.
Regards,
August 16, 2016 - 9:42amMaryann
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Hi! I am very worried. Can I still impregnate a girl if there was no visible, noticeable, or really feelable semen on my fingers?
August 11, 2016 - 1:01pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
You can relax, because without semen on your fingers there was no risk for making a girl pregnant.
Maryann
August 12, 2016 - 9:22amThis Comment
Hi,
August 10, 2016 - 10:38pmA couple of days a go a girl and I were hookinh up while under the influence. Although I may have been intoxicated, I remember most of the details of our hookup. First, I fingered her. Then she gave me a bj and I jerked myself a bit but I stopped because I never got very close at all to ejaculation. I think I may have fingered her 10 minutes later, but once again i had never cum in the first place and even if there was pre cum I believe it was probably an incredibly small amount. I'm paranoid about this stuff always-help!
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Hello Anonymous,
Pre ejaculate fluid itself does not contain sperm. If you had an ejaculation earlier, there would have been a risk for sperm remaining in your urethra, which is the tube that connects to your bladder, travels through your penis and carries urine as well as semen.
I think you put her at risk for becoming pregnant.
Maryann
August 11, 2016 - 9:32amThis Comment
I just don't think I did but obviously am worried.
August 11, 2016 - 10:51amThis Comment