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Pregnant through fingering or mutual masturbation??? Help!!

By Anonymous April 2, 2012 - 7:04pm
 
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Hello,
Lately me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and we had alot of pregnancy scares like getting pregnant through dry humping and we learned over time that this is impossible especially with clothes on, but the thing we are worried about now is pregnancy through fingering or touching each other and touching ourselves at the same time. Of course even though we get caught up in the moment, we are still very careful. There was one day when we were doing these things and we washed our hands before we touch each other and im not sure if he washed his hands thoroughly and im really scared because he came a little bit and whiped it off and washed his hands but im still scared. And today im feeling like mini cramps usually signaling me that my period is coming up but im still scared :( please help me???? :(

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My last period was on 29th Sept and now it's almost 17days i'm late on my period. My boyfriend grind his penis on my vagina with panties and pantyliner on and he was just fooling around. After that he fingered me, he did not ejaculated but we're worried about precum. When he is grinding he did not wet my
panties is there a chance of pregnancy?

October 15, 2016 - 4:08am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

I don't see any chance of pregnancy with what you did.

Regards,
Maryann

October 17, 2016 - 9:04am
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Anonymous

So my boyfriend fingered me for the first time the first weekend in August(4,5,6 or 5,6,7) and the week after I got my period(10-15). I Then started a new seizure medicine and the next month I got what I believed to be my period but it was a lot lighter and I don't know if it was the medicine that caused this or what( Sep. 10-14). This is what freaked me out. The next time he came home was September 16-18 and we messed around then but I made sure that he washed his hands. Then he came home the next weekend (22-25) and we messed around then too, I made sure that he washed his hands every time except once

October 4, 2016 - 10:26am
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Anonymous

So I gave my bf a hand job and he came and he wiped it up with a tissue. Pretty sure he dried his hands about 10 min later he fingered me. I am a virgin and the next day I experienced strings of light blood and so I'm not sure whether this is pregnancy spotting or due to the hymen being stretched/ torn. I'm due for my period in 12 days so this occurred around the time of ovulation. Any chance of pregnancy?? Should I go get the morning after pill it's been 2 days

September 26, 2016 - 7:07am
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Anonymous

Hi,

So we didn't have sex but he has been having me get him off and then finger myself at the same time and right after. I totally didn't think about sperm being on my fingers but I'm sure it was. I did the calendar math and we started doing this about a week and a half after my period. Then a week after that I started getting really bad headaches, my nipples suddenly hurt a lot, and I've been super sick to my stomach for a week now. I have white discharge, a lot of it, I keep thinking it's my period, because I'm now 3 days late. It doesn't hurt or smell at all. Could I be pregnant? I had three fingers pretty deep up in there with sperm on them, obviously not thinking.

Thank you.

September 18, 2016 - 11:24pm
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Anonymous

Hi, is it possible for a girl to get pregnant if the guy fingered her but he touch come before that and after around 10 minutes he finger the girl and was 100% sure that his finger was dry.

September 3, 2016 - 6:35pm
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

If his finger had no fresh semen on it, then there was no risk for causing a pregnancy.

Regards,
Maryann

September 5, 2016 - 9:28am
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Anonymous

My girlfriend and I were engaging in mutual masturbation while mildly intoxicated. I ejaculated on my stomach and a little bit of semen was on my finger. I went to the sink and used a paper towel to wipe off all semen from my stomach. I then rubbed my stomach with my fingers to make sure everything was dry. I was intoxicated, however, and thus dont know how properly I did this. Although am pretty sure I did an alright job. Then I went back into bed with her and after a few minutes started to finger her. Is there a chance of pregnancy, if so what're the odds? Should we get plan b?

August 25, 2016 - 9:48am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

Hard to give you the odds. If all the semen was removed, no risk. If at least 20 minutes had passed, no risk because sperm can live outside the body about that long.

If more than 72 hours have passed, too late to take Plan B.

Maryann

August 25, 2016 - 9:55am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Hello! Can I ask a question?
Me and my girlfriend is engaged to mutual masturbating. Last month, she gave me a handjob and I had a litttle contact with the semen, but, I fingered her 10 mins after the contact. Also, I tried to insert my D inside her but only half was inserted. I did that 20 minutes after ejaculating. She licked my D before I inserted it.
Is it possible for her to get pregnant? She had her period twice last august and it's october now and she still haven't gotten her period. Her breasts seems to be a little bit bigger and she said her nipples were bigger than before. Also, she is very very stressed.
Thankyou

October 11, 2016 - 10:26am
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