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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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Hi me and my boy friend had sex for the first time with no protection and he never came inside of me but im pretty sure there was pre cum and he had his penis all the way in...am i at a higher risk of getting pregnant?
February 7, 2011 - 9:17amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
February 7, 2011 - 9:24amThank you for your question and for finding EmpowHER. Your question was answered in my post right above your question (posted January 28, 2011 - 11:11am). Please read that, and the article provided with my response. If afterward you still have questions, please let us know.
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oh ok thank you but my other question now is that even though its been a couple of days since intercourse is there a way that a women can just know just by the way she feels that she is pregnant?
February 7, 2011 - 9:49amThis Comment
Hi Blanky321,
February 7, 2011 - 9:55amThanks for joining EmpowHER. It is very unlikely you could "feel pregnant" a few days after having intercourse. It takes roughly 10-14 days for a fertilized egg to travel to the uterus and implant, and even at that time a woman may not have symptoms until she's already missed her period or later. If you miss your period, you can take a home pregnancy test, or call your doctor for more information or to receive a test.
Good luck, and let us know how you're doing.
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well its been 3 days since sex and my breasts are super sore is that a sign of anything? because i herd it was but i just want to be sure
February 7, 2011 - 12:01pmThis Comment
hi.. iam 20 years old my periods r dated today...bt they didnt started today.. me nd my boy friend did sex today.. he just inserted his tip.. how much r the chances of me getting pregnant..plz reply soon...he didnt ejaculted inside me..plz reply soon...plz plz plz
January 28, 2011 - 9:33amThis Comment
Hi anonymous,
January 28, 2011 - 10:11amAnytime you have unprotected sex (even if it's just the tip), you risk unwanted pregnancy. We are not doctors, and we can't tell you odds. If he didn't ejaculate inside of you, that is considered the withdrawal method of birth control. It is about 70% effective at preventing pregnancy when done correctly. The problem is that there remains that 30% chance that if there was any pre-cum on his penis, that could potentially get you pregnant. The risk is slim, but it's there. In the future if you don't want to get pregnant, you may want to pick up some condoms or get on birth control pills. You can still use the withdrawal method in addition to make sure you don't get pregnant, and so you won't need to worry in the future.
For more information, please review this article: Answers for Women: Am I Pregnant After Unprotected Sex?
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hi,i'm 17 years old and i'm a virgin too.but my bf touched me with his penis in my vagina but not inside and i want to know if i can be pregnant?i hope the answer is no;ss
January 17, 2011 - 5:24pmThis Comment
please textt me so soon as you can bcuz im so scared but fo real i dont belive if i can be pregnant if he just touched me and fortunately,i've a very tight hole but im scared again bcuz everything can happen
January 17, 2011 - 5:37pmThis Comment
If there is genital-to-genital contact there is a risk of pregnancy. With no penetration, there is very low risk. As Rosa suggested, if it has been within 72 hours since this event, you can request emergency contraception from a pharmacy.
January 10, 2011 - 10:43amFor more information, please review these articles thoroughly: and Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, and The Misconceptions of Sex.
Hope the additional information helps.
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