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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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Anon,
You may take the ipill up to 72 hours after unprotected sex so if you take it at 71 hours, then you're still within the time frame allowed.
Best of Luck,
Rosa
May 27, 2011 - 6:03amThis Comment
First off, if your pants were off and so were his and you were fooling around why would you think you were still a virgin? Just because your hymen is not broken doesn't make you not a virgin. If you've seen it, sucked it, touched it or had a teeny bit of it in you NO YOU'RE NOT A VIRGIN! Same goes for if he's done things to you. The very idea of remaining a virgin is to NOT have known sex in anyway there is no grey area to that. Clothes are off? Not a virgin. HOW ridiculous.
HERE'S THE IMPORTANT STUFF!!! Pre Cum (the drips that come out when he's aroused) has MORE sperm in it per drop than regular ejaculate. SPERM are microscopic, meaning they are too small for you to see them. Chances are they were all over the head of his penis when he stuck it in. Those little swimmers WANT your egg! You get it on your thigh, butt crack anywhere near you Vagina they can and do make it in! And once they get in your Vagina (Virginia is a state) they will have a easy time of getting to their destination so if you are fertile that night, you have a very good chance of getting pregnant! AND even if you put a condom on later with spermicide, there is still a chance that his penis with shove the live sperm from the pre-cum up into your cervix making their trip even easier! Your natural lubricant is thick enough to protect them from the spermicide. So it could happen!
May 26, 2011 - 7:12pmDon't fool around with that stuff if you aren't prepared to be pregnant. It is made to make you pregnant and that's all those little guys want to do. It is their whole life so they are going to be very determined! SO! Use a condom, with spermicide, go on the pill but don't be stupid! AND learn about your body and his. It's YOUR body, know it!
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Anonymous
me n my boyfriend had sex .he inserted fuly in my vagina and he take it ,after certain time his handjob make him to give out sperm.next day of this is my ovulation .is there any chance to get pregnant?.shall i take i-pill?
May 26, 2011 - 5:15amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
If you had sex with no protection, then there may be a chance for pregnancy. Even though your boyfriend did not ejaculate until you gave him a hand job, there may have been pre-ejaculate with sperm present during penetration. If you would like to decrease your chances of pregnancy, then you may take the i-pill. Just remember to use protection in the future in order to avoid having to take the i-pill or worrying about being pregnant.
Good Luck,
Rosa
May 26, 2011 - 8:46amThis Comment
me n my boyfriend had sex .he inserted fuly in my vagina and he take it ,after certain time his handjob make him to give out sperm.next day of this is my ovulation .is there any chance to get pregnant
May 26, 2011 - 4:04amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
I would say there certainly is a possibility but highly unlikely. Men do have pre-ejaculate that can get you pregnant but if there was only insertion for a few seconds, you are probably safe.
Good luck and I hope this helps,
May 17, 2011 - 6:12amMissie
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yeah i am havin a cycle of 28 days!! but it was my 4th day of
May 17, 2011 - 2:47pmmenstrual cycle!! so is there any chance!!!??
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hi i was on the fourth day of my periods and my boyfren n me had sex!! he just inserted his penis inside my vagina and took it out after a few seconds!! is der any chance of me getting pregnant???
May 16, 2011 - 9:34pmThis Comment
if you are on your period, then you are not ovulating, so therefore you can't-or chances are rare to get pregnant. It's possible but highly unlikely. Depends on how your cycles are. Keep track of your period. if your cycle is 28 days (avg for women), start counting the first day of your period. On the 12th to the14th day you should be ovulating, and that is when pregnancy is the highest. On the 28th day you should start your period again. If your cycle is shorter (like 22 days) then you could get pregnant right after your period. just remember sperm can live up to a week inside a woman's body!
May 17, 2011 - 6:50amThis Comment
hi im 19, i had my first sex 3 weeks ago, he inserted his tip like 1 inch deep and it lasted for 7 seconds only he soon took it out, he did not come....im experiencing breast sourness, it became bigger,im having back cramps, and im feeling dizzy, i felt a tremendous acid in my stomach last week causing me to have stomach ache,(but i had acid before) but no heart burns, im tired... im also expecting my period this week... im just afraid it might not come... help i need help.
May 13, 2011 - 8:05amThis Comment