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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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Anonymous

I need some advice...

I'm a 22 year old female & I consider myself a virgin. A few months ago...I fooled around with a guy I had been seeing. I know I didn't want it to go that far...but he was wearing a condom & only put about a 1/2 inch of the tip inside me & I was not fully penetrated & it didn't hurt. I have a feeling i no longer have my hymen, because I've always been very active in sports & I would have bled when he put it inside. He was wearing a condom & I think he came some inside the condom, inside me & when he took the condom off...he was still cumming.
Question 1.) would I still be considered a virgin?

After we fooled around...I didn't feel like myself & I thought I could be pregnant. About 3 1/2 weeks later...I thought I had a misscariage. I woke up in the middle of the night & my pants were soaked with this clear fluid & it wasn't urine. Then when I went to the bathroom..I started bleeding & the blood was slightly clotted. My period is usually exactly on schedule & it wouldn't been due 4 days later. Then I had horrible sharp pains in my stomach & back & I felt nauseous & dizzy. I was also unusually weak. I never got like this on a period. The blood was also bright red & brown & looked dif. than my normal period blood. The bleeding lasted only 3-4 days & I always bleed 6-7 days on my period. I should've gone to the doc...but I didn't have health insurance at the time.
2.) Could that have been a misscariage?

I feel like I learned a valuable lesson from what happened.

June 6, 2011 - 4:13pm
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Anonymous

hi im 15 years old and just a couple weeks ago i gave into having sex with m bf :/ .. it first started with him just putting the tip in then latley we had sex with him going all in. and all the times weve been doing it its been with a condem. but everytime it happens i get off him and ive asked him every time if he cummed and he said he wasnt even close to it so what are the chances that im pregnant?
please answer ASAP! im scared and also wanted to know how plan b works?

June 5, 2011 - 2:48pm
(reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon,

Condoms are 97%-99% effective. So, if you had protected sex you should be fine--even more so if your boyfriend didn't ejaculate.

All the best,

Rosa

June 6, 2011 - 7:25am
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Anonymous

hi im 15 years old and just a couple weeks ago i gave into having sex with m bf :/ .. it first started with him just putting the tip in then latley we had sex with him going all in. and all the times weve been doing it its been with a condem. but everytime it happens i get off him and ive asked him every time if he cummed and he said he wasnt even close to it so what are the chances that im pregnant?
please answer ASAP! im scared and also wanted to know how plan b works?

June 5, 2011 - 2:48pm
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Anonymous

heyy after having sex can we get periods 6 days earlier of prior date!!!

June 4, 2011 - 10:22am
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Anonymous

Hi there..
Am 21 n was with my gf 17..we wer juz playin around in the car n i had ejculated in my pants..after few minutes we felt lyk having sex...i jus inserted my tip in her for about 20-30 secs..i tuk it out b4 another ejeculation...it happen after 20 days of her periods..is there any chances of pregnancy..??

June 1, 2011 - 12:14pm
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Anonymous

he used condom n i saw it after he took it out after intercourse. yeah i am havin discharge now also, white colour. but y did i feel that somethin went in wen he ejaculated even after he used condoms.?

June 1, 2011 - 7:50am
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Anonymous

heyy me and my boyfren had sex!! he used condoms and he ejaculated in it!! and while he was ejaculating i sensed somethin going inside!! it was like, i felt his own cum going inside me and not into the condom!! so can u just tell me whether he ejaculted inside me or into the condom?? or we can feel that inside us wen he is eajculating??

May 31, 2011 - 3:45am
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Anonymous

sorry rosa i didnt take ipill bcoz i buy it after 72 hrs .pls said any other prevention.i am student 21 yrs old and we dnt marry upto 4 years...i heard about fruit pappaya is good for aborting ?is it true?i ate it?pls tell me any medicine for preventing from pregnancy?pls pls....:(i am so tensed and this is our first sexual contact before this we never insert into vagina...i m really scared i dnt wnt to pregnant now.he put it only for 2 sec.after that he done himself the hand job abt 3 min sperm comes out..pls said any preventive measure which i had to take.today is the third day:(:(.i am really scared:((

May 27, 2011 - 9:42am
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Anonymous

thanx for your information. am really frightened to take ipill i.if i take it at 71st hr .pregnancy happened or nt?

May 27, 2011 - 3:45am
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