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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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Hello. I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I have had sex before and we always use a condom but yesterday we just fooling around and he put his penis in me. Not all the way just a little bit like half way and he was literally in for only TWO SECONDS. His penis was completly dry before it went in to make sure that we got the 'pre-cum' off; or most of it at least. It was the 11th day after my period but my period is irregular. What are the chances that I could be pregnant? Like I said... TWO SECONDS!
August 17, 2011 - 6:57amThis Comment
Anonymous,
First of all, two seconds or ten minutes, it doesn't matter. If he had a wet penis or cumed inside you then you could get pregnant.
Anyways, you said his penis was dry and you guys made sure there was no pre-cum if that was right then the pregnancy risk is low. However it could not be completely ruled out because he might not feel himself when he pre cum or so.
Anyways if it passed 2 weeks from that incident, then take a home pregnancy test it should be up to 99% accurate if followed the instructions carefully.
Pregnancy risk is not that high but you guys should use protection next time.
Good Luck. Update us.
August 18, 2011 - 11:22pmThis Comment
HEY IM 18 AND MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN DATING FOR 2 YEARS AND 1/2. WE ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE AND NEVER NEVER USE PROTECTION BECAUSE WE NEVER DID IT AND WHEN WE TRIED IT WAS NOTHING LIKE THE NATURAL WAY. SO WE USE THE PULL-OUT METHOD WHICH I KNOW IS NOT SAFE AT ALL. ANYWAY 2 WEEKS AGO WE HAD SEX AND HE CAME AND PULLED OUT, BUT WHEN HE PULLED OUT INSTEAD OF CLEANING IT HE LEFT IT ON HIS PENIS AND SO I WAS KISSING HIM AND ACCIDENTALLY MY VAGINA TOUCHED HIS PENIS TIP AND I FELT IT WAS WET. BUT IT WAS FOR ABOUT 2 SECONDS NOT MORE THAN THAT AND AN ACCIDENT. SO IDK. COULD I BE PREGNANT OF THAT?
August 16, 2011 - 11:23amThis Comment
Anonymous,
There is a risk, so yeah you could get pregnant from what you described.
You already know that the pull-out method is not 100% safe plus you also said your vagina touched his wet penis, so basically there was direct genitals contact. That is why there is a chance of pregnancy.
Now, the next step is to take a pregnancy test, you could visit the the doctor for a blood test or take a home pregnancy test. You said sex happened two weeks ago so the home test should be upto 99% accurate at this point when used properly and if you followed the instructions carefully.
You guys SHOULD use protection next time.
Good Luck and update us.
August 18, 2011 - 11:17pmThis Comment
Me and my friend were messin around he was just rubbin his dicm on my clit the first time. & then a week later he just stuck in for like a min buthe ddidnt cum.
August 10, 2011 - 9:35pmNow im 1 weeek late on my period. And when i pee im sore. is that normal? Am i pregnant?
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Hi Emmalasalle,
I have answered your question here: https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/could-i-be-pregnant-16-please-help?allcomments=1#comment-91955
Thanks!
Rosa
August 11, 2011 - 8:17amThis Comment
I'm 15 and me and my bf wanted to see how it would feel so he just put the tip in but he wiped off everything before.it happened about 24 hours ago. do I still have a chance of being pregnant? And if so how high?
August 9, 2011 - 6:10pmThis Comment
Unless there was semen on his penis, you will not get pregnant this way. Be careful, though, trying to find out how it feels is usually what leads to more and that CAN result in pregnancy.
Good Luck,
Rosa
August 10, 2011 - 8:38amThis Comment
Hi, I have a question. I'm a guy and I'm 15. I'm pretty sure I did not ejaculate in my girlfriend. And I'm pretty sure I did not insert my penis inside her. But there was a bit of pre-ejaculation. We attempted about 3 times, but there's one time, neither of us were 100% whether sure did my penis enter or not. But I'm pretty sure I did not ejaculate nor pre-ejaculate. Please answer me ASAP.
August 9, 2011 - 2:20amThis Comment
Anonymous,
If she was facing irregular period since ever and it is not recent meaning her irregularity didn't start after being engaged in sex then she is one of many who have irregular periods.
If she is worried about it, she could arrange a visit with the doctor.
But, I am telling you many many women face irregular period and it might be for no specific dangerous reason.
So her late period might be just because she is stressed or because she is normally irregular.
If you guys are still worried about pregnancy she could take a Home Test and as i told you in the previous post, it's really accurate after 14 weeks of having sex.
Good Luck
August 6, 2011 - 1:23pmThis Comment