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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.


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i have a concern
my boyfriend the other day put it inside for a few seconds he was dry but im scared.......

February 18, 2014 - 7:40pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi. Just 3 days ago, my gf and I were rubbing each other's gentiles on each other and I think some precum got into the cliterus and I fingered her while it was on her. I'm very scared and paranoid that she may be pregnant. She has been having weird food cravings, stomach aches, and tired lately. Can you please lmk? Thanks!

December 20, 2013 - 6:10pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hello Ma am ,me And My G.f I had put down my shorts and my g.f was in her legins and panty My sperms had Fallen On her legins And Panty And her thaighs were little bit wet then after 5 minutes she goes in toilet Then she washed her vagina and she had done toilet then after 1 week i had taken the pregnancy test Then there Was all Thing Normal But She Is Not Getting Mens And I Am 2 Much Worried And her Date Is 21 Today Is 17 She Had Eaten Lot Of sour things But Nothing Is Happening Please Ma am M waiting Of Your Rply Plzz Give Me Answer M In verry Stress
I Am Waiting Of Your Rply
And Thnxx For Rplying me Ma am God Bless You

December 18, 2013 - 10:49pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi, me and my boyfriend were fooling around when he put his penis in my vagina for about 10 seconds. He did not ejaculate. I take a low dose birth control pill to help with my irregular periods. however, my period, which according to my pill package was supposed to come three days after that never came. Since then I have had light bleeding (implantation bleeding?), some slight dizziness, and am currently having a bit of nausea. What are the chances that I could be pregnant?

December 15, 2013 - 10:13pm
EmpowHER Guest

i was messing around with my boyfriend a few days ago and he stuck his penis inside me for approximately 5 seconds but did not ejaculate into me. im taking birth control regularly. is there any chance i can be pregnant? im probably just freaking out but i want would like to know what my risk of becoming pregnant.
Also today i was fingering myself and when i was finished i got up to pee and when i wiped there was blood on the toilet paper but my period isnt for another week. should i be worried?

December 4, 2013 - 6:11pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi I need help so two weeks ago my bf and I tried having sex for my first time he put on a condom and wasn't able to get more than the tip in because it really hurt. Yesterday we tried it again first with a condom then without it (he said it might be easier without it) but it still hurt badly. We would either struggle to get him inside & when were almost there it popped out. I also noticed my period is two days late as of today. Could I be pregnant even though he didn't cum nowhere near me? The first time we tried it I think I was ovulating.
Please help thank you

December 4, 2013 - 11:10am
EmpowHER Guest

I had sex Two days ago my bf nutted outside of my vagina and i thonk insode bcuz ihave a werod.smell not. Really noticible but i can smell it. Could i be pergo my vaginal been very moist also been a day or two what can be going on with me a few days before i had sex my vaginal was crampy what could be going on am o at risk of being pregnant

December 3, 2013 - 11:17am
EmpowHER Guest

how can stop pregnancy plz tel me about emergency pills for stoping pregnancy plz tel me

November 29, 2013 - 11:51am
EmpowHER Guest

So this guy and I had sex. He inserted the tip into my vagina without a condom. Then he put a condom on and we had a little bit of sex but stopped soon because it hurt. He didn't ejaculate so I was wondering if it's possible for pregnancy. I have been having some brown discharge lately and wondering If I am going to be okay. I got my period early in the month so It will be about another 20 days until I am suppose to have my next cycle. Thoughts, concerns?
Thank you!

November 25, 2013 - 11:10am
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