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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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I'm 19 years old & recently me & my boyfriend had sex the night we had night the next day I started my period? Then I didn't think nothing of it so we had sex again not on the same day but a few weeks later & everytime he would start to go at it it seemed like it made me sick a little didn't feel very good & it burned when he was going in & out on me so then we tried it without a condom to see if i was allergic to the condom & it felt fine but his penis only stays in me for a few seconds he said he didn't cum inside me or anything but im kinda afraid of the pre cum, is there Any possible way i could get pregnant from that?

March 12, 2012 - 10:23pm
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Question! Me and my boyfriend had sex but he just barely put it in; it was just the tip and it was only a few seconds. Right after, I had to pee like every 5 minutes and then it stopped and then the next day, I started getting lower back pains and cramps, which I still have, as well as some white discharge today. I haven't had any cravings, no sensitivity, no headaches, just these few symptoms and I talked to my doctor and some other people and they say that they think I'm not pregnant or to wait a couple more weeks. The sex was on Friday, unprotected, and I took my new pack of birth control the day before.. Could I be pregnant? I know it's a possibility, but I have an appointment next week with my doctor and yeah.
Thanks!

March 12, 2012 - 6:06pm
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Anonymous

Could it be possible for me to be pregnant? My boyfriend inserted the tip of his penis into my vagina for 5 to 10 seconds and took it off.
After 15 to 2 minutes I took I-pill(Emergency contraceptive pill). Any chances of pregnancy. Please suggest I'm tense.

Thank you.

March 12, 2012 - 1:54pm
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Anonymous

I have a question too! Me and my boyfriend kind of had sex and it only went in a few inches, it was an accident, and I started taking birth control the day before. Right after it happened, I had to pee like every five minutes... And I've had really slight cramps I guess but they could be something else.. Is it possible that I'm pregnant?

March 10, 2012 - 7:52pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Yep, sounds like your pregnant. Good luck with motherhood and enjoy the stretch marks and saggy boobs.

March 10, 2012 - 10:20pm
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Anonymous

You need to grow up! Learn the facts of life BEFORE you start having sex. You sound very un-educated and young. You paint the perfect picture of a kid having a kid. Ignorance is no excuse.

March 9, 2012 - 2:09pm
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Anonymous

Hi,, ive been reading all the comments but none of them seem to give me an answer to my question, the other day me and a girl were messing around, she took her underwear off but i didnt, i had my shorts on, so there was no genital to genital contact i ejaculated and just a little, and i mean close to non sperm got on my stomach, and i rubbed my stomach against her vagina for like 5 seconds after i found out what had happened, then we immediately stopped, could she get pregnant this way? thank you so much for your answer, im really scared =(

March 9, 2012 - 12:52am

Oh and on the educational classes, really? You can't learn correct information from the internet. Anyone can put information out on the Internet, and that doesn't make it correct information. Some information out there is good, while other information is horribly wrong. I am a nurse and I specialize in the woman's health and reproductive area, if you REALLY cannot get yourself to an in-person class I can speak with you via email. But your best bet is to make an appt with your local planned parenthood clinic. They can teach you about safe sex, give you condoms and help your gf get on birth control.

March 8, 2012 - 9:16am

Yes it is possible to get pregnant without having your boyfriend ejaculate inside of you. You may not have seen him "wet" but once he is inside of you, you would never know. While it is unlikely, it is possible. Same thing for just rubbing his penis around your vagina, unlikely but possible.

March 7, 2012 - 2:22pm
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Anonymous

Can it be possible for me to get pregnant if my boyfriend went inside me, but he wasn't wet, i was. Can i get pregnant anyways or not? Or rubbing his penis around my vagina area?

PLEASE ANSWER BACK AND FAST THANK YOU

March 6, 2012 - 7:14pm
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