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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

TO, Maryann Gromisch RN:)
THANKYOUUUU I LOVE YOU<3 you saved my life:')

May 26, 2012 - 3:48am
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Anonymous

thankyou it was really helpful:) im still a vigin n my hymen didnt broke, n yes i did took the pills as they were directed..im not sexually activve i guess, but di i still need to usebirth control regularlt n consistently?, and im just worried, you think im not pregnant? cuz i took pills like the next day n felt vey tiredd

May 25, 2012 - 3:29am
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Hello Anonymous,

There is always the chance of getting pregnant when you have genital to genital contact. The risk increases if he ejaculates in your vagina.

A pregnancy test detects hCG, which is a hormone that is produced only during pregnancy. Levels can be detected by a blood test about 11 days after conception and about 12 to 14 days after conception by a urine test. You tested too early.

An emergency contraceptive, like Plan B One-Step, is effective if taken as soon as possible. It should be taken within 72 hours or 3 days following unprotected sex or contraception failure, like a broken condom.

There was no need to take a pregnancy test after taking the pill. You simply wasted your time and money.

If you took the emergency contraceptive as directed, then, you are not pregnant. Now that you are sexually active, you need to choose and use birth control regularly and consistently.

Please take time and visit the sexual health resource page
https://www.empowher.com/sexual-health-101

Maryann

May 24, 2012 - 5:57pm
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Anonymous

hey, ima a 16 year old girl n me and my boyfriend was just messing up.he insertd his thing inside me just a bit n rubbed it too but it was our first time, he didnt enjaculate, after that i took a pregnancy test it was a negative, i took a pill n then checkd again, it was a negative, aftr 9hours took a pill again..Can i get pregnant now? please reply asap

May 24, 2012 - 1:15pm

sometimes i ejaculate and dont feel it in the heat of the moment and my gf says its all wet she wont get o the pill and we both hate condoms waht can we do when i pull out there is sperm everywhere

May 24, 2012 - 6:47am
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Anonymous

I have a question. it was my first time to do to have sex w/ my bf... and he put like an inch of his penis inside me and yes I got divirginized but were both not sure if he cummed or precummed already. but He was hard at that time. and that happened before 2 weeks before I get my period. and now I'm getting signs that my period is coming already but they said that some signs of menstruation are the same signs of pregnancy. is it possible for me to get pregnant? and im 22 and I'm really scared.... Thank you...

May 23, 2012 - 3:17am
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Anonymous

hi.. i and my bf had a foreplay yest..we were without clothes but we didn't had sex.. can i get pregnant if he didn't inserted his penis..?
he kept his penis near my vagina..
plsss rply me

May 21, 2012 - 4:01am
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HI Anonymous,

Take a look at the information available on this website's Resource Centers listed on the upper left column of this page.

I want to point out the sexual health 101, pregnancy 101, getting pregnant and the reproductive system pages.

You can make better choices and be less anxious once you learn more about sex and reproduction.

Maryann

May 17, 2012 - 4:36pm
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Anonymous

hie m 16yrs old....recently i got intimate wid my bf wid clothes....bt aftr tat he jus lickd my vagina n did nthng else...........m jus worried whthr i m pregnant or noe cozz i dnt hve tat mch knowledge abt sex....n i cnt speak to my parnts also abt it as dey r strict.........m worried since my periods date is after 10 days....so plss help asap....

May 17, 2012 - 12:23am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Dear,
No you can not be pregnant with just orals. Unless you have had your genitals in contact that his penis touching your vagina, only then you have the chances of pregnancy. If as you claim that he has just licked your vagina that there is no way you can get pregnant with that. :)

May 17, 2012 - 12:45am
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