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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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ok i had unprotected sex with my girlfreind 5 days before her period nd i cumed on the floor before then put it up nd like 30min-1hr i took it out nd she sucked it then i put it in her only one time nd pulled it out i didnt keep going and she went to go pee after is there any way she can get pregent

June 9, 2012 - 5:41am

Unfortunately anytime the penis makes contact with the vigina your at risk for getting pregnant. To be certain that there is no pregnancy in place you never allow yourself to get that close. My mono is safe sex is no sex, however if you insist on having sex because we're all human. You must use protection at all times. No questions asked. If your partner doesn't have a condom you present him with one. If he states he will not wear a condom you insist there will be no sex. Please read my story. I'm certain you will find it very inspiring. Stand firm always.
Best regards,
Felisa Shelby

June 9, 2012 - 4:47am
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Anonymous

Hello everyone! I have been reading and following this topic for a while now because then I had a problem that was similar to the topic starter "uniquenezz" and was worried that I may get pregnant if only my boyfriend's tip penetrated. Fortunately, I am NOT pregnant because I just got my period yesterday. All I want to say is that it DEPENDS if your guy ejaculates into you or not. If he does, then like what these empowHER professionals say, you will have a higher chance of becoming pregnant. Thank you for continuing this topic and good luck to you all!

June 7, 2012 - 3:44pm
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Anonymous

Hello. Im a virgin but me and my bf have anal sex. Few days ago after our last time together i got really worried. When he wa about to finish he pulled it out of me and i got some semen arond my vagina are. Hes semen had a little jelly feeling like substances and it got me worried.i have two questions..1. Should i be worried about the chance of becoming pregnant? 2. Whats wrong with his semen? Please answer ASAP! Thank you:)

June 4, 2012 - 6:20am
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Anonymous

hi there! I just had my period last week... and my bf and I had sex on my 5th day, the first time he inserted his penis is he's wearing a condom then he ejaculated outside me. the 2nd time is I gave him a BJ so he removed his condom then he ejaculated outside me near my boobs and rested a bit, then he turned me over and wanted to put his penis like 1/4 of it, but I resisted coz I got scared. now exactly a week after that my boobs are hurting. but not that much. im not sure if its because of the weather its been raining and I feel like im gonna be sick coz the weather keeps on changing and I went swimming yesterday so my body hurts a bit and I still feel the wave. I noticed that I didnt have spotting or anything yet. but my boobs are hurting a bit. is it possible for me that im pregnant?

June 3, 2012 - 8:35pm
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Hi male.looking,

It is probably a highly unlikely chance that she will become pregnant but your explanation. If she was wet also, it may be simply because she was also aroused and not your sperm. If you continue to experiment, be sure to wear a condom to remove the chances of pregnancy. I hope this helps settle your nerves.

Good luck,

Missie

 

June 2, 2012 - 10:24am
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Anonymous

Hi, I am a male not a female but I too have a question. So we and my girl were fooling around we had no clothes on at all but my penis was no where near her vagina, but I was fingering her and I touched my dick with my finger and I think there was some pre-ejaculation on it and I put my finger back in not even thinking could this get her pregnant? I am really worried we are waiting to have sex and I would have a hell of a time trying to explain that one :/

June 1, 2012 - 5:52pm
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Anonymous

To add to my previous comment he said his head didn't go all the way in so I don't think anything can happen but I am still worried? We both cleaned everything off after that and stopped what we were doing.

May 29, 2012 - 8:27am
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Anonymous

Ok, so I've read some of these combats but I'm still not sure.my boyfriend and I were fooling around I had my swimsuit on he didn't and his tip slipped in like a half an inch he pulledit out as soon as it happened and came a minute later but nowhere near my vagina. I don't think I can get pregnant from this since he was in for a half a second but I am still scared could I get pregnant from this? Also any precum was on my swimsuit or the inside of my leg so I really think if I get pregnant from this it's rare but I am still worried?

May 29, 2012 - 8:24am
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Hi,
A intact hymen does not define being a virgin. The hymen is a membrane surrounds or partially cover the external vaginal opening. It can be torn or stretched with during the first penetration experience of sexual intercourse, or non-sexual activity, such as horseback riding, or with tampon use.

What you described in your previous post is sexual activity. You need to use birth control regularly. For example, you take birth control pills at the same time each day, not just when you have intercourse. You must insist that your sexual partner wear a condom each time, from start to finish, you engage in any sexual activity.

As I said in my previous reply, you are not pregnant.

Maryann

May 25, 2012 - 4:30pm
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