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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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Hi all,

Please refer to our 400+ previous questions and answers. No matter what situation you are in, if the tip of a man's penis goes into your vagina WITHOUT a condom-- there is a chance of pregnancy. Take a pregnancy test if you are late or completely miss a period. The answer is the same for all of the above questions that were not previously answered. 

Best of luck to all,

Rosa

February 10, 2012 - 8:56am
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Anonymous

Hi, just like some of the others, I'm in a similar situation. My boyfriend and I are 17, I wanted to wait till marriage but somehow I allowed myself to get curious and I had his tip go inside me, not far, and not for long because I was in serious pain. It was COMPLETELY dry there besides maybe some of his saliva when he wanted to...get "curious" with my area. We had done foreplay for about 4 hours before it happened so I'm pretty sure most of my "fluid" wasn't even there anymore...and it takes ALOT to get anything for me down there anyways. So...before this maybe an hour or two earlier, he had cummed, ran to my bathroom and washed his hands and area with a towel, he spent at least 15 minutes trying to clean that area. I'm pretty sure he was dry but because it was so painful we decided to try and use vaseline to create some kind of way to make it stop hurting me. Eventually we gave up because the pain was too much. He mentioned that he had reached a "wall" of some sort in my area and as sad as it is to say, I'm not entirely sure what that could be. I have some ideas...but still not sure...

After he left early in the morning, later that day I panicked and took 2 of my sisters birth control pills, Sronyx. I have NEVER taken birth control pills before, I heard they could be used as emergency contraceptive in case thats unavailable...I heard i needed to take 5 though but I only took two....

Anyway...I'm worried I could be pregnant...? My sister says there is a VERY low chance that I am. I want to schedule a doctors appointment and was wondering if she will help and give me birth control...? I live in California...I don't know if the age thing matters to the doctor...but I can't have my parents know...but I really want to be safe if my boyfriend attempts to do anything to me again...I try to be responsible and I don't want to think that this one mishap will ruin my life completely. :(

Please help? Advice? I've been feeling weird the past couple days, almost like I'm on my period...but not. Cramps, fatigue, tummy troubles, and my area there really really hurts...and sort of itches...its getting better. This happened on Saturday morning, Feb 4th.

February 7, 2012 - 8:19pm
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Anonymous

Hi like everyone else in here I have a question.
One night my gf was giving me oral sex and I ejaculate. After we were done I wiped off my penis and my sure that I "milked" my penis clearing it of any left over seme. Approximately one hour later w we had unprotected sex. I am 100% positive I didn't cum or pre-cum inside of her. we are both 16 and her period ended exactly seven days befor. Is there any chance she could be pregnant? Even with the semen being one hour old (if there was any left on my penis)?
Thank you to anyone who has experience with this situation or can give a well educated answer.
Thanks

February 6, 2012 - 5:03pm
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Anonymous

Hi, like all in here, I have a question.

Yesterday, me and mi gf were fooling around, and I rubbed my erect penis on her vagina a couple of times (3 or 4 don't really know). I can't tell for sure if there was o wasn't any pre-cum on me... We kept just kissing and hugging and then I asked her if she'd wanna have sex; we were (are?) virgins, and I had condoms on my night table just in case. Ok, so I ended up putting like 2 inches on my penis inside her, WITH the condom on.

I just wanted to know, is there a chance she'd get pregnant if the pre-cum around her vagina was pushed in when I put my condom on and penetrated her?

Thanks for your answers!

January 29, 2012 - 12:14am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

The same guy here. She just got her period, so nevermind. "Thanks" a lot for your "help" people at empowher... Hmm I wonder if I should get a SARCASM sign...

February 9, 2012 - 12:09pm
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Anonymous

hi can u help me i am a virgin but my bf having me sex he ejaculate me i mean we dont have widrawal could it be possible to be a pregnant?

January 24, 2012 - 5:28am
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Anonymous

My friend and I were curious so we tried some things out. He came while side my anal area. Right after I went to the bathroom and did a #2 and could actually see that it came out of me. I wiped front to back but I'm still worried that I may still be pregnant. I had a period right after...like a day or two after. I just had my period this month on time but I had recent weight gain a lil nausea and my abdomen feels weird. This could be from stress but I'm still worried. I feel awful that I'm up at 6am after getting no sleep just up scared to death. This is sooooooooooo the last time I get into a situation like this. How likely is it that I'm pregnant? I've read over the WHOLE list of comments but I want an answer.

January 21, 2012 - 4:20am
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Anonymous

Hi, im only 15 and yestarday my boyfriends and i were just messing around and he didn't seem wet and all to day. but he stuck his penis in for a few seconds. He says he was not wet at all, but if he was a little big is it possible to get pregnant off that?

January 20, 2012 - 9:41pm
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Anonymous

hi, i am 17 years old and have had sex with my boyfriend. we have had unprotected sex a good bit of times, we started having unprotected sex last month and i had my period at the beginning of this month. but after that i kno he has been ejaculating inside me a few times. i am NOT on any birthcontrol pills, shot, or etc. he has been 'pulling out' when he climaxes but sometimes a little late. i was feeling worried about this so i took some tests, they both came out negative but i'm wondering if i'm taking the tests too early or am i just doing them wrong or what. i know for a fact that he has ejaculated inside of me more than once, could i also be getting negative results because my hymen is not broken?? help please??!!

January 18, 2012 - 9:25pm
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