my mum is 49 and i'm 20 and i have AS. I suppose we're in similar situations... I hang around my mum alot maybe because i'm always worried that she is angry at me for not doing some thing. I keep asking if she's mad or if she loves me and stay in close proximity so i can try to gauge a response. I'm always anxious about having done something wrong. She gets mad if i ask too much, but this only increases my anxiety. Thanks for your post, i think i get it. She probably hates me being around so much but maybe it will take the both of us to just be calm then i'll be less anxious and will bother her less, and then she'll not always be so upset with me for annoying her and i won't feel the compulsion to ask her if she likes me today etc. And so on, in that cycle. it takes two
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my mum is 49 and i'm 20 and i have AS. I suppose we're in similar situations... I hang around my mum alot maybe because i'm always worried that she is angry at me for not doing some thing. I keep asking if she's mad or if she loves me and stay in close proximity so i can try to gauge a response. I'm always anxious about having done something wrong. She gets mad if i ask too much, but this only increases my anxiety. Thanks for your post, i think i get it. She probably hates me being around so much but maybe it will take the both of us to just be calm then i'll be less anxious and will bother her less, and then she'll not always be so upset with me for annoying her and i won't feel the compulsion to ask her if she likes me today etc. And so on, in that cycle. it takes two
January 7, 2010 - 10:56amThis Comment
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