Have you asked her why she is hesitant about trying other positions or intercourse in general? If there is no birth control being used, she might be afraid of getting pregnant. Intercourse might be painful or uncomfortable for her. She might feel awkward or inadequate about trying other positions knowing how much it means to you. Foreplay is important and it's good you are doing that and not rushing through it. Try not to put too much importance on positions if she is already feeling hesitant about intercourse in itself.
For your part, you might be putting too much pressure on yourself about positions and lasting longer and that could cause premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation (PE) is when ejaculation happens sooner than a man or his partner would like during sex. It can be frustrating if it makes sex less enjoyable and impacts the relationship. Causes of PE can be psychological or physical. Below, is some information on PE that can help.
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Hello, Jojy! Thank you for posting.
Have you asked her why she is hesitant about trying other positions or intercourse in general? If there is no birth control being used, she might be afraid of getting pregnant. Intercourse might be painful or uncomfortable for her. She might feel awkward or inadequate about trying other positions knowing how much it means to you. Foreplay is important and it's good you are doing that and not rushing through it. Try not to put too much importance on positions if she is already feeling hesitant about intercourse in itself.
For your part, you might be putting too much pressure on yourself about positions and lasting longer and that could cause premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation (PE) is when ejaculation happens sooner than a man or his partner would like during sex. It can be frustrating if it makes sex less enjoyable and impacts the relationship. Causes of PE can be psychological or physical. Below, is some information on PE that can help.
https://www.urologyhealth.org/urologic-conditions/premature-ejaculation
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March 15, 2020 - 6:02amHelena
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