It sounds like you may come from India and still living under the caste system where one is born into a certain "class" and can never leave it.
You have also written about this situation many times.
I think you are thinking about your life on your terms only. How you will feel and how breaking up will affect you.
It won't be easy for you at first but it sounds like you have strong future plans both educationally and romantically. This is a good thing! You'll be fine and happier in the long run if you end this relationship as you realize he is not the right man for you.
The best thing you can do is break up with this young man and allow him to be free to be with a woman who will love him for who is is. I think you would be doing him a great service by being honest and ending things gently as to allow him to find a women worthy of him because you are not.
Best,
Susan
Comment Reply
Hello AnveshaSharma
Thank you for writing!
It sounds like you may come from India and still living under the caste system where one is born into a certain "class" and can never leave it.
You have also written about this situation many times.
I think you are thinking about your life on your terms only. How you will feel and how breaking up will affect you.
It won't be easy for you at first but it sounds like you have strong future plans both educationally and romantically. This is a good thing! You'll be fine and happier in the long run if you end this relationship as you realize he is not the right man for you.
The best thing you can do is break up with this young man and allow him to be free to be with a woman who will love him for who is is. I think you would be doing him a great service by being honest and ending things gently as to allow him to find a women worthy of him because you are not.
May 21, 2018 - 6:19pmBest,
Susan
This Comment
Reply