I'm glad you found my article helpful. I agree, there are very few places for these kinds of conversations. You might look on Facebook, you can find a few pages there devoted to NT children of Asperger parents.
You have had some major revelations that have rocked your life. And maybe right now you are very much aware of how much dysfunction has been part of your upbringing and now your own baggage. But don't despair.
You are on the other side of the revelation now. Closed and unknown doors are now open. Perspectives are widening and change is more possible now than at any other time in your life.
The best may well be yet to come.:) Thanks for writing.