Great story and SO true. I just found out my best friend is a narcissist. I thought it was more of the "only child syndrome" until her true colors came out and she betrayed me me and turned others against me to make herself feel/look better... Made her feel powerful. The worst was she did it with my boyfreind and got him to turn away as well. She made him feel inferior. She played on is insecurities and he bought it hook line and sinker. It's hard to believe anyone, let alone a best friend could be so cruel and actually make me doubt myself. But, that's what a narcissist does. I finally have come to terms with the fact she is who she is. The one thing you can count on about a narcassist, they never change. At some point people figure out who they are. Just wish it hadn't taken me so long to see it. It would not have mattered if I'd talked to her about it either. A narcissist has no boundaries. There are no lines for them. YOU have to create boundaries. Silence to a narcassist is giving them permission. You see, the thing is.. they don't care ...it has NOTHING to do with them. It is everyone elses fault!!
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Great story and SO true. I just found out my best friend is a narcissist. I thought it was more of the "only child syndrome" until her true colors came out and she betrayed me me and turned others against me to make herself feel/look better... Made her feel powerful. The worst was she did it with my boyfreind and got him to turn away as well. She made him feel inferior. She played on is insecurities and he bought it hook line and sinker. It's hard to believe anyone, let alone a best friend could be so cruel and actually make me doubt myself. But, that's what a narcissist does. I finally have come to terms with the fact she is who she is. The one thing you can count on about a narcassist, they never change. At some point people figure out who they are. Just wish it hadn't taken me so long to see it. It would not have mattered if I'd talked to her about it either. A narcissist has no boundaries. There are no lines for them. YOU have to create boundaries. Silence to a narcassist is giving them permission. You see, the thing is.. they don't care ...it has NOTHING to do with them. It is everyone elses fault!!
March 18, 2015 - 12:57pmThis Comment
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