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I have been married to my husband for almost 11 yrs now. We have two children together. He has cut people out of my life. I have no family or friends. He talks like I don't need them in my life because they are not perfect. Because they have problems Yet so does he and he doesn't even talk to his own family. He is on SSI and I work full time and have the one car when I am at work. But if I am not at work I am with him. He complains that I don't love him or give him enough attatien when he is the only person I conversate with other than co-workers at work. He makes me call him and take pictures with my cell phone when I leave work, arrive at work and go on break. He has a camera in the car to watch me. He tells me who I can and can not have on my Facebook page. Today I got off of work 10 mins late and he started yelling at me, saying I must be cheating on him with someone because I should not be getting off late everyday. I work in customer survice so I don't always get off on time. He argued with me for two hours about this and brought up other old stuff from 8 yrs ago when I told him little white lies. When I arrived home I forgot to lock the car door. Later that night he came down staris to check the car (he does this everynight because he doesn't trust me to lock the car) This is the first time in over a year I forgot to lock the car door. He came up stairs and be littled me, yelled at me, told me it's over (he always does this when he is angry, and he's angry every few days) how I am a bad mom and a stupid person. In front of the children and the agurement went on and on and on. I have to leave the apartment to end it because he does not stop. I feel trapped in this marriage and I don't know what to do. :( We have two children, no family around us and we have one car. I can't even leave if I wanted to because I can't leave him with the children with no car and I can't leave without a car. I have been trying to keep this marriage alive but I just can't take this abuse anymore. Also if I refuse to have sex with him he get's angry and says that I don't love him and he says this is way he is the way he is and why he doesn't trust me because I don't want to have sex every few days. I used to be a happy person with lot's of friends, now I am a shadow of my formor self with no one but my children keep me going in this life. Help me.

April 13, 2017 - 9:37pm

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