I also am broken. My husband was never like this before, we have been together since 1992 the last 7 yrs have been getting worse to the point that I have gotten high blood pressure 214/135 I am told how worthless I am and called vulgar names everyday. He says he does not love me anymore, that it is my fault for being unloveable. I can't even escape him at work now because he calls my phone and screams hurtful things on my messages. I am trapped, he has made it so he has to drive me everywhere, he picks me up from work and I know I will be yelled at the entire 45min drive home. He doesn't have a job and I have supported him and our two children most of our life together, he would not have a place to live without me as I make the house payments. He used to be loving and caring, but somewhere he changed, our children moved out as soon as they hit 18 because of his temper. I keep hoping that he will return to the man I fell in love with, I feel like I lost my best friend and I have no one to turn to, not even family. He was screaming at me in the car one time and I started to have chest pains and couldn't breath, he told me he would drop me off at the hospital or I could hurry up and die, he didn't care which. This is a man I have been with for 23 yrs! I don't know how to live with him or without him, I feel lost at 47yrs old. I also found out he was emailing women on adult sites and Craigslist, yet he accuses me of flirting or cheating with every coworker when I haven't. He even used my phone, texted a suggestive message to a 25yr old man who works where I do and when he replied, also suggestively he came to where I work and threw the phone at me and accused me of cheating. I am still getting yelled at over this, when he did it not me! It's getting harder to hide it everyday, I go to work crying, I go home crying, there is a constant fear of what he will say or do. He has also threatened to hit me with his fist and drive me across the room, he hasn't done that yet, although he did push me and hit me once. Mostly it is just the screaming in my face.
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I also am broken. My husband was never like this before, we have been together since 1992 the last 7 yrs have been getting worse to the point that I have gotten high blood pressure 214/135 I am told how worthless I am and called vulgar names everyday. He says he does not love me anymore, that it is my fault for being unloveable. I can't even escape him at work now because he calls my phone and screams hurtful things on my messages. I am trapped, he has made it so he has to drive me everywhere, he picks me up from work and I know I will be yelled at the entire 45min drive home. He doesn't have a job and I have supported him and our two children most of our life together, he would not have a place to live without me as I make the house payments. He used to be loving and caring, but somewhere he changed, our children moved out as soon as they hit 18 because of his temper. I keep hoping that he will return to the man I fell in love with, I feel like I lost my best friend and I have no one to turn to, not even family. He was screaming at me in the car one time and I started to have chest pains and couldn't breath, he told me he would drop me off at the hospital or I could hurry up and die, he didn't care which. This is a man I have been with for 23 yrs! I don't know how to live with him or without him, I feel lost at 47yrs old. I also found out he was emailing women on adult sites and Craigslist, yet he accuses me of flirting or cheating with every coworker when I haven't. He even used my phone, texted a suggestive message to a 25yr old man who works where I do and when he replied, also suggestively he came to where I work and threw the phone at me and accused me of cheating. I am still getting yelled at over this, when he did it not me! It's getting harder to hide it everyday, I go to work crying, I go home crying, there is a constant fear of what he will say or do. He has also threatened to hit me with his fist and drive me across the room, he hasn't done that yet, although he did push me and hit me once. Mostly it is just the screaming in my face.
March 6, 2015 - 2:57pmThis Comment
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