I have been married for 10 years. This is my second marriage my first husband had an affair that produced a child. I was divorced for 7 years working on myself and afraid I would choose the wrong man again. Well I did. It started out wonderful. He has 4 children and I have 2. The oldest were only 10 when we started dating. We got married and I started to notice change in him. I would take my boys to their sports tournaments and every time he would call screaming about something so my trip would be ruined. I would go out to dinner with friends he would call and ruin that as well. No matter what he ruined it all for me.Until I stopped doing anything. I had a lot of friends and family I quit seeing because it was too much trouble. I had a black lab he said hews allergic made her sleep outside in the bitter cold. He made me feel bad when I went to say goodnight to my boys.
Now, he calls me childish, I don't know anything. He screams he told me recently on the phone when I was trying to make a point he said "shut up you god dame bitch." The other night when I was sound asleep he woke yelling and I never speak he goes on and on. He told me if he had not married me I would have beg someone. I know that's not true. I'm a 48 year old model. I am told often from stranger how attractive I am. He is so mean to me.
I have enough money to live on for the rest of my life. My ex husband did cheat on me but he is a loving kind person. We are great co parents I'm still close to him and his family.
My husband got anger recently and poured a glass of wine over my head. He rants about how Christian he is but I beg to differ.
All my decision are based on fear. Do I want to start a life over again. He won't let me work either. He is so jealous of everyone. I started playing tennis I see him checking up on me. I had to lie and tell him my instructor is a woman. Help! What do I do. He has never said he sorry unless I say it first
Comment Reply
I have been married for 10 years. This is my second marriage my first husband had an affair that produced a child. I was divorced for 7 years working on myself and afraid I would choose the wrong man again. Well I did. It started out wonderful. He has 4 children and I have 2. The oldest were only 10 when we started dating. We got married and I started to notice change in him. I would take my boys to their sports tournaments and every time he would call screaming about something so my trip would be ruined. I would go out to dinner with friends he would call and ruin that as well. No matter what he ruined it all for me.Until I stopped doing anything. I had a lot of friends and family I quit seeing because it was too much trouble. I had a black lab he said hews allergic made her sleep outside in the bitter cold. He made me feel bad when I went to say goodnight to my boys.
Now, he calls me childish, I don't know anything. He screams he told me recently on the phone when I was trying to make a point he said "shut up you god dame bitch." The other night when I was sound asleep he woke yelling and I never speak he goes on and on. He told me if he had not married me I would have beg someone. I know that's not true. I'm a 48 year old model. I am told often from stranger how attractive I am. He is so mean to me.
I have enough money to live on for the rest of my life. My ex husband did cheat on me but he is a loving kind person. We are great co parents I'm still close to him and his family.
My husband got anger recently and poured a glass of wine over my head. He rants about how Christian he is but I beg to differ.
All my decision are based on fear. Do I want to start a life over again. He won't let me work either. He is so jealous of everyone. I started playing tennis I see him checking up on me. I had to lie and tell him my instructor is a woman. Help! What do I do. He has never said he sorry unless I say it first
February 5, 2015 - 3:58pmThis Comment
Reply