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I am 29 years old and mother of 3 months old baby.We have been married for 5 years now. Our marriage was arranged by our family.He is 9 years older than me anyway we met in 2009 then we dated for a month than we got married and he came back to Australia after 10 th days of our marriage.
I stayed with his brother and sister- in - law as his parents died when he was a kid. His family emotionally tortured me in every possible way but when he is away ,I tried to tell these things to my husband but he never believed on me. 12th day of our marriage his elder sister ask me to give all my gold jewellery to my brother- in -law ( his elder brother ) when I refused that , my husband told me I am greedy what so ever and made me to give some of them as a gift. However I stayed with them 1 year but my husband told his friend I never stayed with his family and I didn't do anything for them and for him. In 2011 I arrived in Australia I thought that everything will be all right now, but I was wrong.
As soon as I arrived Australia my husband forced me to start working, he told me I am fat I will never get any job here, no one will keep me as a employee. From then I start loosing my faith on me. After 1.5 month I got a job then he start asking me to get a better job with more hours.
as soon as I got part time job his elder brother ask a apartment for him and my husband gave all his savings to his brother and left nothing for me. He always blame me because I don't have white colour job, He is earning good money but he never thinks to spend on me. He always loves to spend on his family. He told me he loves his brothers and sisters more than me. In our 5th wedding anniversary he bought me flowers but he gave his sister Samsung Tablet.When I was pregnant I did work and study but he never appreciate me. I was really tired after work he made me to do cooking and cleaning and when I took my maternity leave he ask his nephew to come over as a student and put all the responsibilities on me. Now I feel so depressed I don't feel like talking with him. I know I love him but he always tease me that I love jewellery in front of everyone but he never ever got me anything. he said that our marriage is not working because I don't have better job, I am not skinny he is not happy with me. he never say I love you I need ask him to say plz say I love you, never say sorry after fight He never say yes anything I ask for. If I ask him please we will go out for a dinner he says no " look at you. You are fat " I am 55 kilo and I am 159 inch. I don't know what to do and where to go. cant share with anyone but cant deal with this anymore please give me some advice.
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Hi,
I am 29 years old and mother of 3 months old baby.We have been married for 5 years now. Our marriage was arranged by our family.He is 9 years older than me anyway we met in 2009 then we dated for a month than we got married and he came back to Australia after 10 th days of our marriage.
I stayed with his brother and sister- in - law as his parents died when he was a kid. His family emotionally tortured me in every possible way but when he is away ,I tried to tell these things to my husband but he never believed on me. 12th day of our marriage his elder sister ask me to give all my gold jewellery to my brother- in -law ( his elder brother ) when I refused that , my husband told me I am greedy what so ever and made me to give some of them as a gift. However I stayed with them 1 year but my husband told his friend I never stayed with his family and I didn't do anything for them and for him. In 2011 I arrived in Australia I thought that everything will be all right now, but I was wrong.
As soon as I arrived Australia my husband forced me to start working, he told me I am fat I will never get any job here, no one will keep me as a employee. From then I start loosing my faith on me. After 1.5 month I got a job then he start asking me to get a better job with more hours.
as soon as I got part time job his elder brother ask a apartment for him and my husband gave all his savings to his brother and left nothing for me. He always blame me because I don't have white colour job, He is earning good money but he never thinks to spend on me. He always loves to spend on his family. He told me he loves his brothers and sisters more than me. In our 5th wedding anniversary he bought me flowers but he gave his sister Samsung Tablet.When I was pregnant I did work and study but he never appreciate me. I was really tired after work he made me to do cooking and cleaning and when I took my maternity leave he ask his nephew to come over as a student and put all the responsibilities on me. Now I feel so depressed I don't feel like talking with him. I know I love him but he always tease me that I love jewellery in front of everyone but he never ever got me anything. he said that our marriage is not working because I don't have better job, I am not skinny he is not happy with me. he never say I love you I need ask him to say plz say I love you, never say sorry after fight He never say yes anything I ask for. If I ask him please we will go out for a dinner he says no " look at you. You are fat " I am 55 kilo and I am 159 inch. I don't know what to do and where to go. cant share with anyone but cant deal with this anymore please give me some advice.
February 3, 2015 - 11:53pmThis Comment
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