The excuses "why not today" usually stem from the fear of the unknown and the many "what ifs" that come up when contemplating such a big step that will change everything forever, and you're not even really sure how exactly that will happen.
He won't take responsibility for the abuse and the depression you've suffered as a result. He probably doesn't even see that he's done anything wrong. So waiting for him to take responsibility will be an exercise in futility.
But don't let him rob you any more of the life he already has. You can take responsibility for you and how you respond to your situation with him. You've already started that process by seeing a therapist.
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The excuses "why not today" usually stem from the fear of the unknown and the many "what ifs" that come up when contemplating such a big step that will change everything forever, and you're not even really sure how exactly that will happen.
He won't take responsibility for the abuse and the depression you've suffered as a result. He probably doesn't even see that he's done anything wrong. So waiting for him to take responsibility will be an exercise in futility.
But don't let him rob you any more of the life he already has. You can take responsibility for you and how you respond to your situation with him. You've already started that process by seeing a therapist.
I really do hope you can break free from this.
Please keep us posted.
October 23, 2014 - 12:51pmThis Comment
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