Who indeed knows the answer to this? I sometimes wonder if instead of all of the society protocol, we all just did what we wanted to do at the time we want to do it, but then we would not have society. I believe that our understanding of this issue is confused by myths of fiction that we believe to be fact. Masculinity & femininty are not the same as male & female. We live at a time when males are wanting to become feminine & females want to wear the trousers. The art of luring is lost or at best confused. I know this all to well as I am labelled as a bi lesbian but have lived with a full time cross-dressing partner (there was a gender mix issue at birth) for over twenty years & that was my choice. I never have the problem as described here either way round, but I have learned to live as I want to live & not be dictated to, by anyone else. If there is a problem, & I am so sorry for the situation here, we may have to take a step back to principles and not just tinker with the timming. So, what happened to old fashioned luring, I learned to do that in the school playground, & it has never failed yet. Look at my etar-pic, I am not a catwalk model.
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Valerie
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Who indeed knows the answer to this? I sometimes wonder if instead of all of the society protocol, we all just did what we wanted to do at the time we want to do it, but then we would not have society. I believe that our understanding of this issue is confused by myths of fiction that we believe to be fact. Masculinity & femininty are not the same as male & female. We live at a time when males are wanting to become feminine & females want to wear the trousers. The art of luring is lost or at best confused. I know this all to well as I am labelled as a bi lesbian but have lived with a full time cross-dressing partner (there was a gender mix issue at birth) for over twenty years & that was my choice. I never have the problem as described here either way round, but I have learned to live as I want to live & not be dictated to, by anyone else. If there is a problem, & I am so sorry for the situation here, we may have to take a step back to principles and not just tinker with the timming. So, what happened to old fashioned luring, I learned to do that in the school playground, & it has never failed yet. Look at my etar-pic, I am not a catwalk model.
February 14, 2011 - 3:48amBest wishes
Valerie
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