I totally agree, masturbating is depressing. I am 51 , F, I look like I am 39. My husband is 55 and has barely touched me in the past 2+ years. I have a super high libido, and only want my husband. He refuses to talk about why we went from an easy relaxed sex life that was very satisfying, to zero intimacy and a few rounds of what I call pity sex. I am so frustrated and hurt that he is choosing to withhold all sex, and touch from me. We are empty nesters too! This should be an exciting time for us. My heart is breaking because as much as I love him, as deeply as I love him, if he refuses to be my partner in every way, I am not sure I can stay married to him. It isn’t just about sex, when intimacy is missing from a marriage there is a big hole. Him not wanting me makes me feel like I don’t measure up, I feel rejected. I stopped getting dressed up, with my hair fixed and makeup on because he never even gives me a compliment, and that is a real blow to my self esteem. The worst part is the loneliness. Especially now with COVID, I am super isolated, with my husband being my only real human contact. I have tried to talk to him about this but he just gets very angry.
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I totally agree, masturbating is depressing. I am 51 , F, I look like I am 39. My husband is 55 and has barely touched me in the past 2+ years. I have a super high libido, and only want my husband. He refuses to talk about why we went from an easy relaxed sex life that was very satisfying, to zero intimacy and a few rounds of what I call pity sex. I am so frustrated and hurt that he is choosing to withhold all sex, and touch from me. We are empty nesters too! This should be an exciting time for us. My heart is breaking because as much as I love him, as deeply as I love him, if he refuses to be my partner in every way, I am not sure I can stay married to him. It isn’t just about sex, when intimacy is missing from a marriage there is a big hole. Him not wanting me makes me feel like I don’t measure up, I feel rejected. I stopped getting dressed up, with my hair fixed and makeup on because he never even gives me a compliment, and that is a real blow to my self esteem. The worst part is the loneliness. Especially now with COVID, I am super isolated, with my husband being my only real human contact. I have tried to talk to him about this but he just gets very angry.
June 15, 2020 - 9:46pmHorny and Broken Hearted in Tennessee
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