He likely isn't going to ask how you feel today simply because if he was having a tough day, he would tell you. He doesn't get upset if you dont ask him how he feels.
If you want to go down that route, it is best to say 'i need you to ask me how i am feeling' This lets him know there is a problem he can try to fix.
If you just rail into him. 'you sob, you dont even care how i feel' then it will be lost on him. He knows you are mad but has no solution.
Expecting him to 'just know' as if he was a girlfriend isnt going to be effective.
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Best to just understand he isn't a mind reader.
He likely isn't going to ask how you feel today simply because if he was having a tough day, he would tell you. He doesn't get upset if you dont ask him how he feels.
If you want to go down that route, it is best to say 'i need you to ask me how i am feeling' This lets him know there is a problem he can try to fix.
If you just rail into him. 'you sob, you dont even care how i feel' then it will be lost on him. He knows you are mad but has no solution.
Expecting him to 'just know' as if he was a girlfriend isnt going to be effective.
May 10, 2020 - 9:44amThis Comment
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