Well, I'm 40 years old...the last thing I want to do is "train" a man to show love and feelings. If I wanted another kid, I would have had another. I have spelled out all of the things that women generally expect in a relationship and we have visited a counselor a few times who also told him women want to feel emotionally connected in a relationship but it's just not the way his mind works. I went out with a friend for dinner and drinks a few days ago and while her husband called to check on her, he didn't even call me at all that night to make sure I had made it home safely. The next day, nothing...until I called him. You can't "train" someone to genuine care about someone else's well-being. I'm not saying people with this condition are bad people, I'm just saying it's like oil and water....there's no cohesiveness. I told him yesterday I can't do this anymore....I cant live a life of frustration and emptiness.
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Well, I'm 40 years old...the last thing I want to do is "train" a man to show love and feelings. If I wanted another kid, I would have had another. I have spelled out all of the things that women generally expect in a relationship and we have visited a counselor a few times who also told him women want to feel emotionally connected in a relationship but it's just not the way his mind works. I went out with a friend for dinner and drinks a few days ago and while her husband called to check on her, he didn't even call me at all that night to make sure I had made it home safely. The next day, nothing...until I called him. You can't "train" someone to genuine care about someone else's well-being. I'm not saying people with this condition are bad people, I'm just saying it's like oil and water....there's no cohesiveness. I told him yesterday I can't do this anymore....I cant live a life of frustration and emptiness.
October 31, 2016 - 8:32amThis Comment
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