My advice is to get out now! I've been married to an AS for 12 years & together 15. I only realized there was really something missing in him after he got out of the Navy. You see, all the years prior to 2010 he was out to sea 7 months at a time. Gone a lot so I wasn't living with him 100% of the time. He would email me very sweet letters, but they were always kind of choppy & stilted. I just thought he was a bad writer! Well it's been 6 years of him being home &I'm so unfulfilled as a woman. Compliments ? Romance ? Empathy ? Completely nonexistent! He thinks paying the majority of the bills & buying me what I need/want shows love ! He's argumentative & just emotionally unavailable. He says he's told me things when he hasn't. I'll tell him something & he gets angry denying I've said anything. I've started texting him everything important so I can refer him to it. This is a miserable life. He's socially awkward & never wants to go anywhere or do anything.
He has NO friends, plays video games incessantly & has no concept of intimacy. He doesn't like to be touched & I'm a very affectionate person. He can't even stand to hold hands !! I'm not sure how much longer I can exist like this. On top of it he's a complete slob & cant see why his sloppy habits are completely frustrating & thoughtless ! Please don't subject yourself to this life. I'm the most lonely married woman on earth!! Good luck !
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My advice is to get out now! I've been married to an AS for 12 years & together 15. I only realized there was really something missing in him after he got out of the Navy. You see, all the years prior to 2010 he was out to sea 7 months at a time. Gone a lot so I wasn't living with him 100% of the time. He would email me very sweet letters, but they were always kind of choppy & stilted. I just thought he was a bad writer! Well it's been 6 years of him being home &I'm so unfulfilled as a woman. Compliments ? Romance ? Empathy ? Completely nonexistent! He thinks paying the majority of the bills & buying me what I need/want shows love ! He's argumentative & just emotionally unavailable. He says he's told me things when he hasn't. I'll tell him something & he gets angry denying I've said anything. I've started texting him everything important so I can refer him to it. This is a miserable life. He's socially awkward & never wants to go anywhere or do anything.
He has NO friends, plays video games incessantly & has no concept of intimacy. He doesn't like to be touched & I'm a very affectionate person. He can't even stand to hold hands !! I'm not sure how much longer I can exist like this. On top of it he's a complete slob & cant see why his sloppy habits are completely frustrating & thoughtless ! Please don't subject yourself to this life. I'm the most lonely married woman on earth!! Good luck !
October 15, 2016 - 9:33pmThis Comment
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